One of the Desert Fathers, Hyperechios, said:

“Monk (solitary one / alone one), do not show yourself to be harsh and difficult. Be mindful that no one who is harsh and difficult has persevered.”

I need this word, because I’m afraid that I am often harsh and difficult.

My words can cut deeply.

My tone can leave a bruise.

I don’t know why it’s so easy to be difficult.

But perseverance requires repentance, a turning away from these harsher and more difficult inclinations.

Lord, just for today, help me to not be harsh or difficult.

In place of harshness, make me gentle.

Instead of being difficult, help me make for peace.

Thanksgiving 2025