Bruised Reeds

Bruised reeds.

Smoldering wicks.

Isaiah says that the servant of the Lord will concern Himself with these.

Isaiah 42:1-3

This is my servant; I strengthen him, this is my chosen one; I delight in him.

I have put my Spirit on him; he will bring justice to the nations.

He will not cry out or shout or make his voice heard in the streets.

He will not break a bruised reed, and he will not put out a smoldering wick; he will faithfully bring justice.

Matthew applies this prophecy to Jesus. After healing a man with a withered hand on the Sabbath, the Pharisees conspired to destroy Jesus (Matt. 12:14). But Jesus was aware of this, so He withdrew — and yet, the crowds followed Him. “And he healed them all,” (Matt. 12:15). Though His enemies would plot to have Him killed, Jesus will not break a bruised reed, nor put out the smoldering wicks.

He continues to heal.

Continues to restore.

Though it would cost Him His life, He continues to love in this way.

And that is why I follow Him.

Bruised reeds and smoldering wicks.

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2025-26 NFL Playoff Picks: Championship Round

After the Divisional Round, here’s where things stand in our family competition:

Joshua 6-4

Sunny 4-6

Jason 6-4

For the championship round, I’m taking the Rams and Broncos; Sunny is taking the Seahawks and the Patriots; and Joshua is taking the Seahawks and the Patriots.

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2025-26 NFL Playoff Picks: Divisional Round

Well, I took a few chances with my picks last week (Jags and Chargers) and came up empty. Joshua, on the other hand, crushed it:

Joshua: 5-1

Sunny: 4-2

Jason: 3-3

But there’s still plenty of football to come. Here are our picks for the divisional round of the playoffs.

Buffalo Bills at Denver Broncos

Last week, I pointed out the fact that Josh Allen was the best QB in the postseason field, which always gives the Bills an advantage. But the path to the Super Bowl is going to be awfully tough for him. Just to get there, he’ll need to win three road games this month. He looked the part in Jacksonville this week, but things won’t get any easier at Mile High this afternoon. Denver should be rested and they seem to have a little bit of magic whenever they’ve needed it. I think this one will come down to the wire and I’m taking Denver on a late field goal.

Jason: Broncos

Joshua: Bills

Sunny: Broncos

San Francisco 49ers at Seattle Seahawks

I continue to be so impressed by Kyle Shanahan. Injuries continue to ravage his roster and all he does is win. But this Seattle team is really good. When they played a couple of weeks back, Seattle’s defense completely throttled Shanahan’s offense — which came in on a heater. The wild card here is Sam Darnold’s health. Reports sound optimistic this morning, but even if Darnold doesn’t play, I think the smothering defense will be enough for the ‘Hawks to advance to the NFC Championship Game next week.

Jason: Seahawks

Joshua: Seahawks

Sunny: 49ers

Houston Texans at New England Patriots

I find myself leaning in the direction of the dominant defenses with these picks. I suspect Mike Vrabel will have the Patriots ready to defend their home turf Sunday afternoon, but I just love the way the Texans’ D gets after it. Even though the Texans are 0-6 in the divisional round, if CJ Stroud can play mistake-free ball, I could see Houston pulling the road upset in this one.

Jason: Texans

Joshua: Texans

Sunny: Texans

Los Angeles Rams at Chicago Bears

Okay, so I know I just said I tend to pick the defenses. But this Rams offense, man. Their path to the Super Bowl is just like Buffalo’s — they’ll have to win three road games — but with Matthew Stafford and all of those weapons, it just seems like they’re never out of a game. Forecast says it should be single digits by kickoff, which will likely impact both offenses. But I can’t wait to watch this one. I’m taking the Rams to win at Soldier Field.

Jason: Rams

Joshua: Bears

Sunny: Bears

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2025-26 NFL Playoff Picks: Wild Card Round

Every year, Sunny and Joshua and I have a little pick ’em contest with the NFL playoffs and I keep up with the standings here on the blog. This regular season was as unpredictable as any in recent memory. Who saw the Broncos securing the AFC West division crown, much less the #1 seed in the AFC? Who could’ve predicted that Mike Vrabel and Drake Maye would engineer such an impressive turnaround in New England? (Even if their schedule was daycare.) Who would’ve guessed that Jacksonville — winners of eight in a row — would be the hottest team in the league coming into the playoffs? And that’s just in the AFC alone! The Seattle Seahawks are the clear #1 seed in the NFC, but would anyone be surprised if the Bears knocked them off? Or the Rams? Or the Eagles? Or the 49ers?

There are so many great storylines to follow in these playoffs. With Patrick Mahomes, Lamar Jackson, and Joe Burrow all watching from home, Josh Allen is clearly the best QB in the postseason. This Bills team is certainly flawed, but Allen may never have a better path to a Super Bowl. It will also be interesting to see if the Eagles can find their offensive rhythm again. We’ve seen them do it before and they almost seem too talented to fail. But they’ll have to run the gauntlet to repeat, starting with a tilt against the 49ers. Imagine what Kyle Shannahan could do with a healthy roster. Can Aaron Rodgers add to his Hall of Fame credentials with another postseason run? Does defense still win championships? If so, the Texans, Broncos, Seahawks and Eagles should be feeling really good about their chances. But I don’t know — this Rams team feels special. I have a feeling they might be the team to win it all. Thankfully I don’t have to decide that right now.

Here are our picks for the opening round of the NFL playoffs:

Los Angeles Rams at Carolina Panthers

Jason: Rams. In a blowout.

Joshua: Rams

Sunny: Rams

Green Bay Packers at Chicago Bears

Jason: Bears, although Jordan Love playing has me a bit worried about this selection. He’s gotta be kind of rusty, right? I’m a little surprised all three of us picked the Bears in this one.

Joshua: Bears

Sunny: Bears

Buffalo Bills at Jacksonville Jaguars

Jason: Jaguars, although I hope I’m wrong about this pick. I LOVE watching Josh Allen play. More than any modern QB, he reminds me of John Elway. But I can’t overlook the fact that Sean McDermott is 0-5 in road playoff games. Plus the Jags haven’t lost a game in two months.

Joshua: Bills

Sunny: Bills

San Francisco 49ers at Philadelphia Eagles

Jason: Eagles. I think this could be the best matchup of the entire opening round. I know there are a lot of good coaches in this league, but I am constantly amazed at what Kyle Shannahan has been able to do despite injuries to his roster. In the end, I just think the Philly defense is too good and the offense finds a way.

Joshua: Eagles

Sunny: Eagles

Los Angeles Chargers at New England Patriots

Jason: Chargers. Can’t go chalk the whole way. I think New England is fraudulent.

Joshua: Patriots

Sunny: Chargers

Houston Texans at Pittsburgh Steelers

Jason: Texans. Neither team will put on an offensive clinic, but the Texans defense is just elite.

Joshua: Texans

Sunny: Texans

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Praying Your Way Into Glory

I was recently reading Luke’s account of the transfiguration of Jesus. And this line really stood out to me:

And as he was praying, the appearance of his face was altered, and his clothing became dazzling white.

Luke 9:29

I’d never noticed that Jesus essentially prays His way into the transfiguration. Peter, James, and John catch a glimpse of the divinity of Jesus: all light and glory and wonder. The disciples marvel as this act of transcendence as the humble Nazarene is revealed as the eternal Son of God. Moses and Elijah, representing the law and the prophets, speak to Jesus of His impending departure — and the Greek word is exodus, the redemptive motif of deliverance from exile. Indeed, Jesus — through His own sacrifice — liberates us from the bondage to sin and leads us toward the great promised land. As soon as He comes down from this mountain, Jesus will set His face toward Jerusalem where all of this will take place. And this moment of transfiguration prefigures the glory of His resurrection. It reveals to the disciples — and to us — His true nature as the Son of God.

All of this is certainly true.

But Jesus is also a human being.

I know that’s a really obvious thing to point out. But I think it matters, especially here. Jesus is the divine Son of God, eternally glorious in every way — but He is also fully human in every way (save one). By taking on flesh, Jesus makes Himself susceptible to hunger and thirst, disease and distress. The self-sufficient Son of God becomes a baby — perhaps the most dependent of all creatures. In the Incarnation, the pre-existent Word of God subjects Himself to the linear movement of time. He even makes Himself susceptible to our fleshly temptations (Hebrews 4:15). The only thing separating us from our Brother is the fact that He never gives in to those sinful urges.

And as a flesh and blood human being, Jesus prays His way into glory.

This is a word of hope for us.

Because as human beings, we can pray our way into glory, too.

Not prayer as a “work,” as something we DO — although we certainly have to be the ones DOING the praying. But when we fixate on our activity in prayer — eyes opened or closed? kneeling or sitting or standing? aloud or silent? — we’ll certainly never experience everlasting transformation. We’ll simply second guess ourselves and wonder if we’re doing it right.

But whenever prayer becomes less about technique and more about God’s faithful presence, prayer becomes a means of communion. And communion is always transformative. I believe this is what God always intended when He led men to “call upon the name of the Lord” (Gen. 4:26) all those centuries ago. Prayer was always more personal, less performative. To meet with God “in the secret” (which is the literal translation of Matthew 6:6) is to enter that interior space, the sanctuary of the heart where the Divine eagerly awaits our arrival. It is to come before the Lord free of pretension, no mask, no agenda. In the words of Theophan the Recluse, “To pray is to descend with the mind into the heart, and there to stand before the face of the Lord, ever-present, all seeing, within you.”

This is prayer in the way of Jesus. When He retreats to solitary places to pray, He enters the hallowed space where Father can say to Son, “You are my Beloved.” This way of praying transcends so many elements of our modern practice: our sermonizing; our breathless recitations of the illnesses of others; our verbalizing “to do” lists for God. Surely there is some degree of petition and intercession on behalf of others in the regular prayer life of Jesus. But my point is that His prayer life was so much MORE than this, too. Prayer is essential to the ministry of Jesus because it is an act of communion — and communion with the Father is the energy source for all human beings. Our deepest longing of all is to hear the Father say, “You are my Beloved.” And this only occurs in the sanctuary of the heart.

And I’m convinced that this way of praying — prayer as communion — is the key to our transformation in the present.

That’s what I mean when I say we can pray our way into glory.

With God’s help, this is possible.

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Humility

The Desert Fathers and Mothers teach on a variety of topics.

But one thought appears consistently throughout their sayings.

They teach that nothing defeats the demons like humility.

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Becoming A Spiritually Realized Person

For several months, I have been reading a daily devotional book entitled Becoming Fire: Through the Year with the Desert Fathers and Mothers by Tim Vivian. Each day highlights two or three excerpts from the desert Christians: a teaching, a story, or a parable emanating from the wilderness. Since I picked up this volume back in November, I naturally just started reading along from that date — toward the end of the book.

Yesterday I opened up to the front of the book for the first time. Just before the reading for January 1st, Vivian included a few quotes from other authors — the kind of thing you often find at the beginning of a chapter. Honestly, the quotes Vivian included were fairly forgettable, save for one phrase that caught my attention. One of the authors talked about becoming “a spiritually realized person” and instantly my imagination was engaged. What does it mean to be a spiritually realized person?

I immediately thought about our cultural obsession with self-actualization, the interior quest to become your authentic self by following your heart and pursuing your dreams and being true to yourself — and all of the other nonsensical Disney-fied mantras which are so ubiquitous in the modern age. We unquestionably accept the goodness of this kind of hero quest because it is the basis of some of the most meaningful narratives we consume. And because it makes us feel good. Self-actualization as an ultimate aim is a natural by-product of expressive individualism and its radical centering of the feeling self. (For more on expressive individualism, you need to read Trueman’s excellent book, The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self.)

To my thinking, becoming a spiritually realized person is a departure from the pursuit of self-actualization. Rather than seeking meaning for one’s life based upon one’s desires, the spiritually realized person’s life is shaped by a telos beyond themselves. The spiritually realized person’s identity is received, not discovered. Instead of reveling in self-determination — I am whoever and whatever I decide to be — the spiritually realized person recognizes that one’s “truest self” comes through Holy Spirit regeneration.

Imagine my surprise, then, whenever I began reading my first book for the year, The Reason for Church by Brad Edwards. I think I bought this one a few weeks ago after seeing it highlighted by Christianity Today as one of their top books of 2025. In our era of rapid dechurching, Edwards is seeking to reclaim a robust ecclesiology to speak into the essential nature of the church. And his first chapter is entitled “Spiritual Pragmatism” with the tagline: “How Seeker Sensitivity and Self-Actualization Reduce the Church to a Spiritual Non-Profit” (emphasis added).

I felt like God might be trying to say something to me, so I read with eager anticipation. Here’s what I came across:

Secular self-actualization embraces almost any means of fulfilling one’s potential. What matters most is that you are in the driver’s seat and not some other person, institution, or tradition. . . . Self-actualization is so baked into American culture that it has subtly influenced evangelical approaches to discipleship, making one’s own spiritual growth the telos, or purpose, of the Christian life, instead of the fruit or by-product of following Jesus. Self-actualizing ‘discipleship’ isn’t more than what Scripture calls us to, but less. It reduces the scope of Christian faithfulness to personal spiritual practices like Bible study and prayer.

Edwards, p8.

Edwards parses this out carefully, and for good reason: in our age of self-actualization, we might think that “becoming a spiritually realized person” is just another way of saying that you are maximizing your spiritual growth or “being all you can be” in some spiritual context. But that’s never been the point. The point has always been following Jesus. But without careful nuance, even the discussion of spiritual disciplines — that which God intends as a means of grace — can become one more measuring stick, one more box to check on your spiritual To-Do list. And that, too, misses the point.

Such an approach actually leads to flimsier discipleship. Edwards cites self-actualizing discipleship as a major reason so many people have rejected the institution of church:

What matters most to God is your spiritual growth, that you’re becoming the kind of person you believe he created you to be, and anything that doesn’t support your (self-actualizing) spiritual journey is optional. If, for whatever reason, your church no longer aligns with your values or helps you fulfill your potential, simply find one that does. It’s nothing personal.

Edwards, p19.

When discipleship is framed in terms of self-actualization, even God Himself becomes little more than a sidekick accompanying you on your main character hero quest. When you put it that way, none of this sounds very much like “take up your cross and follow me,” does it?


So what does it really mean to be a spiritually realized person?

I suppose in some ways, I’m still working toward a complete answer. But here’s what I have so far:

It’s about communion with the Triune God who bids you to come to the table of grace.

And it’s about communion with your brothers and sisters in Christ with whom you share the familial bonds of brokenness and shame.

It’s about rejecting the siren song of self-determination and receiving a truth that comes from without rather than within.

It’s about forsaking the cult of spiritual striving to simply rest in the finished work of Christ.

It’s about Sabbath — for our bodies, to be sure; but also for our weary souls and our heavy-laden hearts.

It’s about experiencing unshakeable peace, no matter what life throws at you.

It’s about descending into the sanctuary of the heart to hear Him say, “You are my beloved!”

Maybe it’s about more than that, I don’t know.

But I know it’s not about anything LESS than that.

And on the cusp of a new year, as 2026 stands before us as a blank slate, I can’t think of a better resolution or controlling idea than this one: over the next twelve months, may I become a more spiritually realized person.

Happy New Year

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Best Albums of 2025

Music is a mnemonic device for me. Certain songs immediately take me back to my childhood or when Sunny and I started dating or when the kids were born. I think that’s why I like new music so much; it often serves as the backing soundtrack for that particular year.

This year, I didn’t find as much new music that really captivated my imagination. Some years, I have a hard time paring down the list; this year, it was pretty much a two-horse race. 2025 will go down as the year I fell in love with the music of Beirut. And I’ll also remember it for Bon Iver’s most recent (and final?) masterpiece.

Best Albums of 2025

  1. Bon Iver, SABLE, fABLE
  2. Beirut, A Study of Losses
  3. Sam Fender, People Watching
  4. Amble, Reverie
  5. Scott Ballew, Paradiso
Bon Iver’s SABLE, fABLE

The Triumph of Bon Iver

I’ve been a Bon Iver fan for a long time, but not from the very beginning. When he burst onto the scene in the late aughts with a sparse, acoustic heartbreak album recorded in a Wisconsin cabin, I didn’t jump on the hype train along with everyone else. I didn’t really become a fan until 2011’s self-titled release — and “Holocene,” in particular. But Justin Vernon’s project remains the most consistently excellent band in all the land. Everything they record is just incredible.

I didn’t know what to make with last fall’s surprise EP consisting of only three songs. SABLE had that same stripped-back vibe and dark tone as For Emma: “I would like the feeling gone.” “How am I supposed to do this now?” “I know now that I can’t make good.” The guy was seriously grieving something, that much was evident.

But SABLE’s fall release was just an initial launch — and a bit of a setup, too. It’s no accident that Vernon waited until spring to release the second part of the record: fABLE, with its explosion of joyful sounds and color. And there it was, teased out all along in the lines of “AWARDS SEASON”: “You can be remade / You can live again / What was pain now’s gained / A new path gets laid.”

That new path was toward something warmer, lighter, more joyful. Disc One recalls the past, keeping the attention on Vernon’s baritone vocals with little accompanying instrumentation. This is clearly a signal that we’re starting in our own head — ruminating on loss and regret. But Disc Two of the album is like Dorothy opening up the door to step into a world of color. The tone immediately becomes lighter — “radiant pop” in the words of one reviewer. And Bon Iver kind of throws the kitchen sink at you: R&B, funk, gospel….it’s all here. There’s also very little of the auto-tune of previous albums; Vernon’s register is more immediate and soulful and he surrounds his voice with a variety of collaborators (Danielle Haim, Dijon, Jacob Collier, Jenn Wasner), giving the record an important sense of community.

For most of 2025, I’ve been pursuing a deeper sense of joy — as I make my way through “mid-life,” this seems more essential than ever before. And this record has been a meaningful part of that search for me. Vernon has said that this record is an intentional departure from “the guy in a cabin” persona, the primary black of SABLE giving way to the salmon pink of the whole record. This shift represents a shift away from mourning in order to step into the light of healing. “Everything Is Peaceful Love” signals this shift; the song is absolutely rapturous. Same for “From” and “Day One,” two of the standout tracks from the second half of the album. “There’s a Rhythm” talks about finding a land of palm and gold to replace the snowier terrain of the past. In a way, this is the sound of an artist breaking up with his former self. Bon Iver no longer has to play the “sad guy” — and I’m there for it.

An Album for a Circus based on a Book

I’ll admit: I had a really hard time choosing between these two records for my Album of the Year. Beirut is the brain child of Zach Condon; although there are other players involved, Beirut is essentially a one-man band. Back in the spring, I got on a kick of listening to Beirut’s back catalog and I kept it on constant repeat throughout the month of March. In April, Condon released A Study of Losses, an album of new music he recorded as the soundtrack to a circus which is based on Judith Schalansky’s book “An Inventory of Losses.” If that sounds bonkers, it’s because it is. Victoria Dalborg, the director of the Swedish circus Kompani Giraff, approached Condon about creating a soundtrack for the acrobatic stage show. The inspiration for all of this was Schalansky’s book about things that have disappeared from our world: art, extinct animals, sunken islands, etc. Condon was intrigued by the idea and went to work reading the book and writing and composing these 18 tracks for a new album.

Even if you don’t know the backstory, the music is undeniably beautiful. Songs like “Moon Voyager” and “Tunaki Atoll” and “Villa Sacchetti” will be in heavy rotation for me for years to come. And I have a feeling if I ever go back and re-evaluate my Album of the Year winner for 2025, it will be due to the fact that this album continued to capture my heart.

The Oasis Farewell Tour (maybe)

I also spent a good deal of time listening to Oasis in anticipation of seeing them on their North American tour. After years of estrangement, brothers Liam and Noel Gallagher were able to patch up their differences long enough to tour the world in celebration of the 30th anniversary of their landmark album What’s the Story, Morning Glory? Seeing them live in Chicago was a “bucket list” moment for me and I’ve enjoyed replaying their best songs throughout the year.

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Best Books of 2025

Each year I set a goal of reading 52 books — one per week. I think it’s a pretty ambitious goal and most years I fall short. But by the time I finish up my current read, I’ll be at 56 books this year. In December, I like to look back and determine which books resonated with me the most. As always, my 2025 year-end list is comprised of mostly non-fiction: lots of books about theology and baseball and prayer and — my most recent obsession — maritime disaster. (Check it out; it’s an actual thing.) If you want to look back over some of the lists from previous years, you can find them here.

[Note: these are books I read this year, not necessarily books which were published in 2025.]

Best Books of 2025:

  1. The Wisdom of the Desert by Thomas Merton
    • When I look back on 2025, I will remember it as my deep dive into the world of the Desert Fathers. Many of you are probably thinking, “Who are the Desert Fathers?” In the fourth century A.D., as Christianity was being established as the official state religion of the Roman Empire, a growing number of believers fled to the deserts of Egypt, Palestine, and Arabia, abandoning the cities of the pagan world to live in solitude. These men and women are known to us today as the Desert Fathers and Mothers. Their sojourn into the desert was based upon the conviction that this new relationship between church and state was producing a society which was “regarded by them as a shipwreck from which each single individual man had to swim for his life,” (Merton, 3). Skeptical that Christianity and politics could successfully produce a utopian society, these believers retreated to the desert (Greek, eremos). Thus, these came to be known as eremites, or “hermits.” In later years, they also came to be known as “monks,” based on the Greek word monos, which simply means “alone.” The Christian “monk” sets his life on one goal: the submission of his whole being to God by imitating Christ (Peter H. Gorg, The Desert Fathers). Over time, communities of hermits developed in several of these desert locations. These hermits were not scholars but laypeople who simply sought to live obediently to Christ. They practiced solitude and silence, devoting themselves to scripture, prayer, and a simple way of life. But they also practiced generosity and hospitality, sharing resources with one another and passing on valuable spiritual instruction to one another. Some of this wisdom has been recorded and preserved as “The Sayings of the Desert Fathers.” In this concise volume (80 pages), Merton gives a brief historical sketch of the desert movement before offering up what is essentially a “greatest hits” compendium of desert teaching. These writings have been a tremendous aid to my prayer life while also challenging me to practice silence and solitude more regularly. Many of these stories and sayings have made their way off the page and into my heart. I only wish I had been exposed to this wisdom earlier in my life. I highly recommend this work to anyone who wishes to grow their prayer life.
  2. The Desert Fathers: Sayings of the Early Christian Monks, translated by Benedicta Ward
    • After reading Merton’s “greatest hits,” I decided to go back to the original source material to get all of the “deep cuts.” This collection is organized by topic and it includes the stories from Merton’s volume, along with a host of other desert sayings. I’d say try the Merton book on for size before you launch into this unabridged volume. But both are extremely rich and challenging.
  3. The Shape of Joy: The Transformative Power of Moving Beyond Yourself by Richard Beck
    • This year, I’ve also spent a good deal of time thinking about and pursuing joy. Beck’s latest has been in my Kindle library for several months, but I didn’t read it until very recently. His central thesis is that there is a certain geometry to joy that eludes us as we are increasingly “curved inward” — obsessed with ourselves and our attendant neuroses. In order to pursue joy we must willfully turn away from the self through acts of service and moments of awe. But the science is clear: we don’t arrive at true joy without ultimately moving beyond ourselves into transcendence. Cosmic mattering is essential to our flourishing — which opens us up to the full impact of the gospel. I’ve loved everything Beck has written, but I think this might be my favorite so far. Highly recommend.
  4. Divorce and Remarriage: A Redemptive Theology by Rubel Shelly
    • In my line of work, I am asked about divorce and remarriage regularly. And usually, the stakes are quite high in those conversations. Shelly’s “redemptive theology” is a welcome addition to my library of pastoral resources on these topics. I certainly appreciate Shelly’s scholarship and his careful treatment of the biblical text. But I’m especially touched by the ministry sensibility with which he writes. Chances are that someone in your circle — a family member, a close friend — has been touched by divorce in one way or another. If you’re following Jesus, I think you’ll appreciate Shelly’s high view of scripture and his compassionate tone. I wish everyone would read this book.
  5. Spiritual Direction: Wisdom for the Long Walk of Faith by Henri Nouwen
    • Anything by Nouwen is bound to be thoughtful, but this collection of lecture notes, sermons, and journal reflections — compiled posthumously — is rife with wisdom on the practice of spiritual companionship, moving readers away from the notion of a spiritual director as a “guru,” instead presenting them as a “soul friend” willing to listen someone into existence. So much wisdom packed into this volume.
  6. Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage by Alfred Lansing
    • Written in 1959, Lansing’s account of Sir Ernest Shackleton’s ill-fated Trans-Antarctic Expedition is the definitive work on the subject. Lansing uses interviews from surviving crew members as well as material from their personal diaries to tell a story that kept me on the edge of my seat. This story is simply too incredible to be fiction. You won’t be able to put it down.
  7. All the Colors of the Dark by Chris Whitaker
    • I don’t read a lot of fiction, but Whitaker’s story has stayed with me since I read it over the summer. Equal parts serial killer thriller, coming-of-age tale, and love story, this sprawling narrative plays out over several decades in the lives of two childhood friends, Patch and Saint. The best piece of fiction I read all year.
  8. The Bully Pulpit: Theodore Roosevelt, William Howard Taft, and the Golden Age of Journalism by Doris Kearns Goodwin
    • Every year, I read at least one Presidential biography; Doris Kearns Goodwin’s The Bully Pulpit is a double feature, covering the presidencies of Roosevelt and his successor and eventual rival, Taft. Goodwin’s treatment is always thorough and compelling.
  9. Getting High: The Adventures of Oasis by Paulo Hewitt
    • I read this one in anticipation of catching the Oasis reunion show in Chicago this summer. Hewitt’s work with the band is considered definitive, covering Oasis at their What’s the Story, Morning Glory peak.
  10. The Tao of the Backup Catcher: Playing Baseball for the Love of the Game by Tim Brown with Erik Kratz
    • I read several baseball books every summer, but this one was my favorite this year. Brown highlights the heroics of the backup catcher, using the story of former MLB catcher Erik Kratz to call attention to the unsung nature of the position.
  11. Guidelines for Prayer by Matthew the Poor
    • Matthew the Poor was the refounder and the spiritual father of the Monastery of St. Macarius the Great in Egypt. He offers some great wisdom for growing in prayer.
  12. James: A Novel by Percival Everett
    • Everett reimagines the story of Huckleberry Finn as told from the perspective of Jim, who reclaims his full name “James.” It’s a subversive take on the racial constructs and oppressive systems which shape our identities. Timely in so many ways.
  13. In the Kingdom of Ice: The Grand and Terrible Polar Voyage of the USS Jeannette by Hampton Sides
    • I fell in love with Sides last year as I read The Wide, Wide Sea, his account of Captain James Cook’s third and final voyage. So I was eager to dive into In the Kingdom of Ice, Sides’s account of Lieutenant George DeLong’s search for the mythical “Open Polar Sea” aboard the USS Jeannette. And this one did not disappoint. This ill-fated journey led to the crew being stuck in Arctic pack ice for nearly two years. What ensues is a white-knuckle survival tale presented by a master storyteller. Read it and you’ll see why I’m a sucker for these “maritime disaster” stories.
  14. Life After Power: Seven Presidents and Their Search for Purpose Beyond the White House by Jared Cohen
    • Cohen examines seven former Presidents who find various paths toward significance in their post-Presidency years, which Cohen describes as “the most dramatic retirement in the world.” Jefferson devoted his final years toward founding the University of Virginia. John Quincy Adams went on to serve nine terms in the House of Representatives and became a leading voice in the abolitionist movement. Until Donald Trump, Grover Cleveland was the only President to serve non-consecutive terms, making Cleveland the original “comeback kid.” Taft followed up his single term in the Oval Office by pursuing his ultimate dream of becoming a Supreme Court Justice. Hoover and his wife devoted themselves to humanitarian aid for decades after leaving the White House. Jimmy Carter enjoyed the longest post-Presidency in history, devoting himself to a variety of human rights causes. And if you’ve lost track of George W. Bush since he left Washington, that’s by design. Free from the limelight, you won’t believe how Bush has been spending his time lately. A fascinating read if you love Presidential history.
  15. Bible Translations for Everyone: A Guide to Finding a Bible That’s Right for You by Tim Wildsmith
    • Another question I’m asked quite often is, “What is the difference between this translation of the Bible and that one?” Wildsmith has written a concise, informative volume explaining the history and translation philosophy of each major English Bible on the market today. I’ll be handing out copies of this for years to come.

Best Re-Read:

The Ragamuffin Gospel: Good News for the Bedraggled, Beat-Up, and Burnt Out by Brennan Manning

I spent the summer re-reading this classic by Brennan Manning. I originally read this 25 years ago as a brand new youth minister. I’m happy to say that it still holds up. A stirring examination of the best news of all: the gift of God’s grace.

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Silent Night: Christmas 2025

This holiday season, I have been thinking a lot about the lyrics of some of the songs we hear and sing around this time of year. I’ve thought about that line from Joy to the World, what it really means to prepare Him room. As I mentioned in my previous post, I’ve thought about the opening line of O Come All Ye Faithful with its call for the faithful, the joyful, and the triumphant to come and adore the Christ child and what that might imply for the rest of us. And this past week, I’ve thought a lot about Silent Night.

Silent night, holy night

All is calm, all is bright

I guess from a certain point of view, you could say that Jesus was born on a silent night. By the time He was born, it had been four hundred years since the last prophet in Israel. Just think about it. That means no inspired writers. No prophetic utterances. No one boldly declaring, “Thus sayeth the Lord!” I wouldn’t blame the people if they started to wonder, Does God have anything left to say to us? Since the days of Malachi, generation after generation had been born and lived and died without any new word from the Lord. In that regard, the night when Jesus was born was just the latest in a series of silent nights stretching back hundreds of years.

But when it comes down to the reality of His birth, this holiest of nights was far from silent. I’ve been in the room for three different births and I can tell you that “silent” is the last word I would use to describe the scene. Even with the help of modern medicine, there’s still a fair amount of screaming and crying going on when a baby is born. Imagine how much more so this must have been the case for Mary, giving birth in a dark cave, no epidural, no spinal block. You think Mary was silent? Probably not!

But they say the most important sound amid all the chaos is the baby’s first cry. It’s a sign that he or she is healthy — that air is being forced into the lungs as the baby transitions from life inside the womb to life outside. Imagine Mary’s joy at hearing the cry of her son for the first time. After all those months of waiting, the child had finally arrived.

And He cried.

This is worth considering in a deep way.

When Jesus was born, God’s long silence was finally broken.

After centuries with no word from the Lord, God finally had something to say.

And that long silent night was broken when God — in the form of a child — began to cry.

Just let that sink in. After four hundred years of silence, what would be the first thing to come out of God’s mouth? A word of judgment? A prophetic prediction? A declaration of power? No — it was a child’s cry! Who could have ever seen that one coming? The eternal, self-sufficient God crying to be held, crying to be fed. It defies our wildest expectations and — for my money — is the greatest evidence that this story originated from on high. We would never concoct such an unexpected story!

God breaks the long silence by putting the cry of humanity upon His own lips.

We have been crying out for a long time. War and violence. Famine and plague. Oppression and abuse. Paul says creation itself is groaning as in childbirth. How long, O Lord? This is the cry of the psalmist and the prophet alike, but it is our cry as well. In the words of another Christmas song, we live in a weary world in need of rejoicing. As we survey this mess of pain and suffering, we might wonder if God has anything left to say to us.

But in the birth of this child, God puts our cries upon His own lips.

He subjects Himself to our weary world.

And when He arrives, He cries.

He feels what we feel; He is Immanuel, God with us but also God as one of us.

On that holiest of nights, God breaks the silence with a cry.


How do you react when a child starts crying in church? Does it irritate you? If you’re the parent of that child, does it embarrass you?

Some people seem to have this assumption that children are supposed to be completely silent during worship. And I guess I understand that, at least up to a point. No parent wants their child to be a distraction as we’re praying or reading God’s Word or taking communion together.

But at the same time, the cry of a child during worship is actually in keeping with the story we’re supposed to be remembering and celebrating. The cry of a child during worship — especially during communion — might actually be the holiest part of our week if we just have eyes to see and ears to hear.

The next time you hear the cry of a child as we worship, it’s not a time to get irritated. If you’re the parent of that child, it’s not a time to be embarrassed.

May the cries of that child remind us of that holiest of nights, when Christ was born — when God broke His silence by putting the cry of humanity on His lips.

And may the cries of that child point us to the cross, where Jesus bore our grief and carried our sorrows, as He was pierced for our transgressions and He cried out once again.

Merry Christmas, my dear friends.

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