Trades and Rumors of Trades

If you’re a baseball fan, you simply cannot live without MLB Trade Rumors. The site goes bonkers every July and December, when trade rumors run rampant. MLBTR will have covered on all things Johan, Miguel, Haren, etc. If you’re a diehard baseball junkie like yours truly, you should check it out.

Any other favorite hot stove sites you check out?

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Santa?

So our kids are finally old enough to really get into the whole Santa Claus thing this year. Last week, Scott had a discussion over at his blog that I want to continue here. What do you tell your kids about Santa? They’ve already started asking me how he’s going to get in the house. That has to sound weird to a little kid. “Listen, this big old guy is going to come down the chimney and sneak around the house on Christmas Eve, OK?”

When they ask if he’s real, what do you say? If you go along with the whole thing, isn’t that lying to your kids? I want them to enjoy the season, but I don’t want to lie to them. Am I being too silly here?

I guess I feel like their innocence will be gone soon enough, so we’ll probably play along. Anybody got any advice? Were you totally traumatized when you found out “the truth” about Santa?

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Boys Night Out Recap

Last night’s Boys Night Out was a hit. I picked up Joshua a few minutes early from school. He’s always pretty excited about getting to ride in my truck, so the afternoon got off to a great start. I asked him what he wanted to do that night and after mulling over a few possibilities, he decided he wanted to go rent a movie. So we made a beeline to Blockbuster and picked up a copy of Ratatouille. (It was OK. Definitely not Cars. But then again, what is?) After we picked out our movie, we went next door to Books-A-Million and I let Joshua pick out a calendar to give to Abby Kate for Christmas. With my coaxing, he chose a Disney princess calendar for sis (I had to convince him not to get her the Spider-Man calendar).

After making these stops, we went home to play in the front yard. He wanted to play baseball (atta boy), so I soft-tossed a few while he took some batting practice. Then we moved to the basketball goal and took turns making shots before spending some time riding our bikes. It started to get dark and pretty cold, so we hopped back in the truck a little before 5:00. Neither of us were hungry just yet so, at Joshua’s request, we made a run to the public library. The apple sure doesn’t fall far from the tree, does it? We picked up another video and Daddy checked out a copy of Wilco’s Yankee Hotel Foxtrot. Joshua even sat still for about 10 minutes while he leafed through the latest copy of Sports Illustrated. After a quick stop at McDonald’s, we were back at home. I think we had our pajamas on with Ratatouille in the DVD player by 6:30. We capped the night off with some late night M&M’s and a wrestling match. By 9:00, the little guy was wiped out (so was Daddy!) and I tucked him in.

Last night while we were driving around, Joshua saw a church building outside his window. “What is that, Daddy?” he asked.

“It’s a church,” I told him.

“What do they do there?”

“Well, they probably talk about Jesus.”

“Daddy, you talk about Jesus.”

“Yes, son. I do.”

“When I get big, can I talk about Jesus?”

“Buddy, you can talk about Jesus now, even though you’re little.”

The biggest grin spread across his little face. “Oh. I can talk about Jesus, too!” For Dad, that was the highlight of the evening.

Here’s Joshua’s description of the night and our plans for watching today’s big game:

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Jesus Makes Me Nervous

Last night, all 5 of us loaded up in the van to run a few errands. While we were out, we decided to stop by Burger King for dinner. This is a rare occurrence for us. Since viewing the anti-Mickey-D’s documentary SuperSize Me a few years back, Sunny has taken a virtual vow of abstinence toward all forms of fast food. But it was convenient and we were hungry, so before long we were all enjoying a bountiful feast of processed chicken gizzards and cola. It was great.

On my way back to our table after taking Joshua to potty, I overheard a conversation at another booth. Actually, I only overheard one sentence of the conversation, but that was enough to catch my ear. As we walked by, a big, burly, FSU-parka-wearing guy in his mid-40’s bellowed in a fairly loud voice, “Well, Jesus makes me nervous!” Joshua instinctively looked at the man and, with his classic inquisitive expression, asked, “What?” to no one in particular. We quickly shuffled back to our table and finished our meal. 10 minutes later, we were on our way home.

I guess I was struck by FSU’s comment because I’m not used to thinking of Jesus in those terms. The whole time we were running our errands, we listened to songs that hailed the birth of Jesus, tender and mild with cattle lowing and rumpa-pum-pum. How could this Jesus make anybody nervous, I thought to myself. The juxtaposition of the whole moment was interesting, too. While we were in the bathroom, I asked Joshua our usual series of Bible trivia questions, things like “Who built the ark?” and “Who was in the lion’s den?” and “Who saw the burning bush?” (To watch the whole performance, click here.) It just seems like the Deut. 6 thing to do, you know? Two seconds before we walked by FSU’s table, I had just asked Joshua the question, “Who walked on the water?”, to which he correctly answered, “JESUS!” My three-and-a-half year old son seemed to be infinitely more comfortable with Jesus than FSU did and I took pride in that. I suppose I gave myself an inward pat on the back for being such a good parent, for raising a child in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, or something like that.

But on the way home, I started to reflect even more on FSU’s comment. What if he’s right, I thought. Isn’t Jesus supposed to make us a little nervous? He certainly made his enemies nervous. I mean, you don’t kill a guy for walking around telling people to “Be nice” and “Obey Mommy and Daddy” and all the other things that the flannelgraph Jesus of my childhood used to tell us. Seriously, who would crucify Mr. Rogers? No, the real Jesus made the religious authorities nervous with His declaration of the coming Kingdom of God. He made them nervous because He didn’t play by their rules. He worked on the Sabbath. He didn’t wash His hands before He ate. Worse yet, He dined with sinners. People were more important to Him than issues, and that made them nervous and irate. And for this, they killed him.

I started thinking about my relationship with Jesus. And I started to wonder if maybe I’m a little too comfortable with Him sometimes. Maybe I gloss over the parts of his character that make me nervous, selectively focusing on the aspects of his teaching and life that are congruent with who I think he should be. Maybe by emphasizing Him as an ever-present friend I’ve sold myself an incomplete image of Him as Messiah. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that there’s plenty about Him that makes me nervous.

Consider the following points from His Sermon on the Mount:

  • Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. That makes me nervous, because it seems to imply that association with Christ will bring insult and persecution from the powers.
  • Anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. And anyone who says, “You fool!” will be in danger of the fire of hell. That makes me nervous, because I have a temper, because I often say things that I shouldn’t.
  • If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. This makes me nervous, because I want my giving to be conditioned on a whole lot of issues that Jesus doesn’t even mention.
  • Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. This makes me nervous, because I don’t pray for my enemies and I’m certainly not perfect.
  • If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. Do I really need to explain why this one makes me nervous?

I guess what I’m saying here is that I have to guard myself against a complacent attitude when it comes to Jesus. I’m certainly thankful for the relationship I have with Him, the relationship He initiated and sustains. But in that relationship, there needs to be room for Him to still surprise me. To make me nervous.

Otherwise, I’m not sure I’m seeing the real Jesus.

And I don’t want to see any other kind.

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Boys Night

Tomorrow, Sunny and Abby Kate and Jackson will be going up to Nashville for the night. Sunny and Abby Kate will be joining my sister and her daughter to go see the Rockettes at Opryland. So that leaves Joshua and me here at the ol’ homestead. We’re looking forward to a Boys Weekend together. On Saturday, we’ll definitely make time to watch the SEC Championship Game. But we’re wide open on Friday night? Any ideas? I’m thinking of taking him to see a movie. I hear The Golden Compass is good.

Seriously, I thought about Bee Movie. Anybody seen it? Is it good? Any other suggestions? If it were summer time, I’d take him to a Stars game.

Either way, I’m looking forward to a fun night with the little guy!

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MyPod: Christmas Faves

I’m something of a Christmas music connoisseur. Before I married Sunny I was pretty much an Ebeneezer Scrooge come Christmas time. But she always gets the Christmas music out in October and somewhere along the way, I just learned to start enjoying it. We’ve been spinning the Christmas tunes for a few weeks now, and I’ve compiled my favorite playlist. I think you can find most of these on iTunes. I limited myself to one song per artist.

  1. Christmas Time Is HereVince Guaraldi Trio. Over the last couple of years, this has become my favorite Christmas song. It takes me back to being a child sitting cross-legged in front of the TV watching the Charlie Brown Christmas special in footed pajamas. Nice.
  2. Blue ChristmasElvis Presley. This is my all-time favorite song to impersonate. Rumor has it I once recorded a music video for it. I will neither confirm nor deny this.
  3. The Christmas SongMel Torme. Simply fine. Required listening.
  4. Sleigh RideHarry Connick, Jr. I challenge you not to tap your toes to this one.
  5. White ChristmasBing Crosby. I love me some Mele Kalikimaka but this is Bing’s best Christmas performance.
  6. Christmas (Baby Please Come Home) U2. Bono and boys rock this one out.
  7. Feliz NavidadJose Feliciano. Yeah its kitsch. So what. This is just pure fun. You know you like it.
  8. Adeste FidelesFrank Sinatra. A beautiful song. A singular voice. A perfect marriage.
  9. Baby It’s Cold OutsideDean Martin. Smooth as silk, baby. Can’t go wrong with Frank and Dino back to back.
  10. Santa BabyEartha Kitt & Henri Rene. Avoid the Madonna remake and go for this classier original.
  11. God Rest Ye Merry GentlemenBarenaked Ladies & Sarah McLachlan. In a short amount of time, this has become the signature version of this tune for me.
  12. Santa Claus is Coming to TownBruce Springsteen.
  13. Have Yourself a Merry Little ChristmasMartina McBride. You really should pick up her Christmas album. Not a bad song in the bunch, but this is the best of the lot.
  14. A Holly Jolly ChristmasBurl Ives. Burl, you’ll always be Sam the Snowman to me.
  15. The Chipmunk Song (Christmas Don’t Be Late)The Chipmunks. Gotta have this one for the kids. They love it. And I love that they love it.
  16. All I Want For Christmas Is YouMariah Carey. This one’s for Sunny. I know it’s Christmas time when she starts singing this one into her hairbrush.
  17. The Little Drummer BoyHarry Simeone Chorale.
  18. Jingle Bell RockBobby Helms.
  19. Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree Brenda Lee. A Christmas playlist would be incomplete without these three stellar tunes.
  20. Rudolph the Red-Nosed ReindeerGene Autry. We used to listen to my sister’s vinyl LP of this holiday classic by the singing cowboy.
  21. Angels We Have Heard On HighChris Tomlin.
  22. ‘Zat You Santa Claus? Louis Armstrong. You’ve probably never heard this one, but it’ll make for a fun addition to your holiday music.
  23. It Came Upon A Midnight ClearElla Fitzgerald. Come on, how can you go wrong with this one?
  24. Welcome to Our WorldChris Rice. I love songs that embrace what this season is all about: the glorious Good News of God with us! Rice’s lyrics will be rolling around my brain for the next month, which is something to be thankful for.
  25. Christmas Like A Child Third Day. The line I love the most: “It’s all about Jesus…”. True dat, Mac.
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Churches of Christ in 50 Years

One of my assignments for this semester’s Stone Campbell Theology class was to write a paper about the future of churches of Christ. Specifically, we were charged with making some well-informed estimations of what churches of Christ will look like in 50 years. I have some of my own ideas about this, but I’m curious to know what you think. Generally speaking, when you think about the future in churches of Christ, is the outlook positive or negative? And what do we mean by those terms? What will be the effect of postmodernity in our churches? We’re already seeing some of this, but what will a full-blown postmodern orthopraxy look like in churches of Christ?

What do you think the church of Christ will look like in 50 years? I’d like to know what you think.

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Ozella’s Psalm

Over the past few months, I’ve been blessed to spend some time with some dear saints here at Mayfair, Paul Kendrick and his sweet wife Ozella. Paul is in poor health, but his mind is still nimble and sharp. His quick jokes and warm smiles spring from a place where cancer and disease cannot afflict. Miss Ozella faithfully cares for Paul with great grace and warmth. She wrote the following poem after reading Psalm 46. I share it here with you that you might be encouraged, as I was, by the words of this faithful, loving woman.

God Is Our Refuge

God is our refuge and strength what ever our troubles be.
We need not fear even if the earth crumble in the sea.
Let the mountains tremble and the oceans foam.
There is a river of joy flowing through God’s sacred home.

God himself is living in that city so wonderfully fair,
It stands unmoved despite the turmoil everywhere.
He loves and lives with us and keeps us from harm,
If we will just trust him, love him and lean on his arm.

The nations in anger might rant and rave,
When God speaks he does his children save.
the commander of the armies of heaven is he,
The God of Jacob has come to rescue you and me.

Come see this glorious thing, our God does the world overturn,
He causes all wars to end, does all weapons burn.
He wants everyone to know, He is their God , Him you must heed!
The commander is among us, He will out of bondage lead.

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St. Jude’s Update

I just wanted to follow up and thank all of you who made a contribution to this year’s St. Jude’s Campaign for a Cure. Because of your donations, Sunny and I were able to TRIPLE our fundraising goal. Thank you for your kindness and your generosity. I hope you know that your contribution will make the difference in the life of a cancer-stricken child. I know several of you also chose to contribute online and I’m personally grateful for your help, too.

If you didn’t get a chance to make a donation last month, you can click here to make an donation at the St. Jude website. You can choose to make a one-time donation, or sponsor a child through a monthly gift. If you’re more comfortable, you can mail your donation directly to St. Jude at P.O. Box 187, Memphis, TN 38101-0187. If you’d like more information before making your donation, visit www.stjude.org or call 1 800 822 6344. If you’re unable to contribute financially, please continue to pray for these children suffering with cancer as well as their families.

Thanks again for your help. God bless.

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Atlanta Bound!

Left for dead after a 41-17 drubbing by the Crimson Tide six weeks ago, my beloved Vols miraculously resurrected their season and, following today’s quadruple-overtime victory over the Kentucky Wildcats, are poised to represent the Eastern Division in next weekend’s Southeastern Conference Championship Game. It’s a testament to what a zany year it’s been that we could lose to Florida by 39 and Bama by 24 and still make it to Atlanta. I’m sure all the prognosticators will pick LSU to completely demolish us, but tonight, we’re simply savoring a 9-3 regular season and a shot at the SEC crown. Now if I could just get my hands on a couple of tickets for next week’s game…

It’s great to be a Tennessee Vol…

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