Winter Wonderland

When you live in Alabama, this is about as “wintry” as it gets. Better than ice, I guess. Stay safe!

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Boundaries

So a certain polarizing film was released this weekend. Plenty of articles have been circulating on social media telling you why you shouldn’t see Fifty Shades of Grey. I agree with what I’ve read; based on what I know, I don’t think you should see it. But I also don’t think the cyber-sphere needs one more article addressing all of that, so that’s not where I’m going with this post.

But the whole craze surrounding Fifty Shades of Grey has prompted a line of questions I’d like to pose to my fellow Christians:

  • As a follower of Jesus, are there certain films or shows you won’t watch?
  • As a follower of Jesus, are there certain books you won’t read?
  • As a follower of Jesus, are there certain songs you won’t listen to?
  • As a follower of Jesus, are there certain video games you won’t play?

You get the idea.

We all have a relationship with certain types of media. This is undeniable and not necessarily a bad thing. After all, I like to think those leather-bound study Bibles are good forms of media. But the overarching media-related question for those of us who follow Jesus should be, “Where are the boundaries?” Does following Jesus have any direct bearing on my media consumption? If we find ourselves engaging certain forms of media each day, how can we reconcile this with Christ’s call that we take up our crosses daily as we seek to follow Him (Luke 9:23)? Does Jesus have anything to say about where the boundaries should be in my life?

I think many Christians suffer from perceived invincibility here. Deep down, we know that engagement with certain forms of media isn’t necessarily good for us, but we also falsely believe we can handle it. Perhaps this line of reasoning is common to you: “Yeah, I know so-and-so is violent or crass or worldly, but it’s just entertainment. I can handle it.” I see this kind of mindset particularly among Christians my age or younger. And I have to concede that it’s at least possible that some of us are able to “handle it.” But I’m afraid that when we do this, we turn a blind eye to the very real danger that many times we simply can’t handle it.

Which prompts another question for my fellow Christians: If you weren’t able to handle it, how would you know? What metric would you use? I think this is a question we need to be able to answer. Discernment here might help us more properly appropriate Christ-focused and Christ-centered boundaries in our lives.

Predictably, Fifty Shades of Grey is a box-office smash ($90 million and counting). It’s up to you to decide whether or not to see the film. But as followers of Jesus, I simply ask that we exercise discernment in establishing the kind of boundaries that help us to live as salt and light — as a contrast community in the world.

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A Good Day for a Bike Ride

Today was a good day for a bike ride with my constant adventure companion.

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An Afterschool Snack

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Outpouring of Love

The past few weeks have been a whirlwind for me. I first spent a week in Honduras visiting with the mission team of Mission UpReach, a church planting organization located in Santa Rosa in western Honduras. Mission UpReach has a God-sized goal: to plant one church in each of the 2,000+ villages surrounding Santa Rosa…in THIS generation. Some of our best friends have been serving to accomplish this mission and it was great to visit with them for a few days. (For more information, visit the Mission UpReach website.)

I spent last weekend speaking at a youth rally hosted by the Cheyenne Church of Christ and I had a blast! It’s been a few years since I’ve spoken exclusively to teens, but it’s like riding a bike; it all came back to me pretty quickly! Cheyenne has hosted this particular youth rally for at least the last 25 years. It’s probably been longer than that, but 25 years is as far back as anybody could remember. I was so blessed by the attitude and spirit of these teens who were passionate about living for Christ. I had a great time visiting with some new friends from Wyoming, Kansas, and Colorado.

In between these trips, I officiated my grandmother’s funeral. In fact, I received a phone call on my way to the airport at the end of my time in Honduras. It was Sunny; my grandmother passed away around midnight. I was really fortunate to share this news while I was in the presence of our good friends. They let me share my memories of my grandmother for most of the remainder of our ride.

These past few weeks, I’ve been blown away by the outpouring of love our family has received. We miss my Grandmother — she was a very special lady — but we have been so encouraged by the knowledge that we aren’t walking through this season of grief alone. A few years ago, after the death of Sunny’s father, our mail carrier actually stopped her route to ask us if we were okay. We weren’t exactly sure what she meant until she said, “Y’all have received so many cards over the past week; I just knew it had to be bad news.” The same has been true now as we’ve entered into grief once more. We’ve been overwhelmed with expressions of love and concern by our friends in Christ.

We’re so thankful for the relationships we enjoy in the body of Christ. God is so good and His faithful love endures forever. Tonight I’m praising Him for the way that love is expressed to us through so many godly people in our lives.

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Never Give Up

Tonight was a really special night for our church family. Our 4th and 5th grade boys led our evening worship service. At Mayfair, our young men spend a few months working through a Leadership Training class on Wednesday nights, learning to lead in a corporate worship assembly. After weeks of preparation, tonight was the BIG NIGHT. Our worship center was buzzing with lots of parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and siblings, all eager to cheer on our young men.

This is always a highlight, a night that I look forward to all year long. But this year was especially significant because it was the first year that my oldest son, Joshua, was a participant. When I heard that he was going through the Leadership Training on Wednesday nights, I wondered what he would sign up to do but I didn’t want to pressure him. He eagerly told me after the first night that he planned on leading a prayer and preaching one of the 3-5 minute sermons. Of course, I was excited. And nervous!

Joshua immediately knew that he wanted to speak on the topic of perseverance or, in his words, “never giving up.” This is a huge theme around our house. Sunny and I have preached the virtues of perseverance to our children from day one. At various times — on the ball field, on family hikes in the Smoky Mountains, while working on math homework — we drill into our kids that quitting just is not an option. We want to raise kids that have the ability to cope when things don’t go their way and the fortitude to bear up under pressure.

Well, tonight Joshua used our family mantra — and several of the examples I listed above — as fodder for his first sermon. He talked about how Jesus faced opposition from the Pharisees, wicked men that wanted to destroy Him. Yet, He never gave in to the temptation to throw in the towel. Instead, Jesus did the hard thing, the tough thing — He stayed true to God’s mission of love in order to make redemption possible. Even redemption for Pharisees. (Those are Joshua’s words, not mine.)

My son also pointed out that Jesus demonstrated extreme perseverance in the garden of Gethsemane prior to His death, praying, “Not my will, but yours be done.” Rather than lashing out at those who wanted to harm Him, Jesus persevered because of His trust in God’s plan, His trust that God’s way was the only way. (Again, not my words.)

Joshua told a story about what was a formative experience for him: hiking in the woods with his brother and me. A few years back, I took the boys on a hike in the Smoky Mountains. After a while, their little legs started to wear down and they wanted to head back to the car. But we had a little “man talk” together and I gave them my best Vince Lombardi halftime speech: “Boys, we don’t give up. That’s not what we do.” The boys rallied and we made it to the top of the trail to see, in Joshua’s words, “the most beautiful God-made waterfall I’ve ever seen!”

Never Give Up. Those words have new meaning for me now, having heard them preached back to me from my son. You make me proud, Joshua. Keep letting your light shine.

And never give up, son.

Joshua Bybee's first sermon, Jan. 25, 2015

Joshua Bybee’s first sermon, Jan. 25, 2015

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NFL Picks: Divisional Round

Here are our picks for this week. Looks like the three of us will maintain a two game lead over Mom and Joshua no matter what transpires tonight and tomorrow.

Baltimore Ravens at New England Patriots

Abby Kate: Pats

Jackson: Pats

Joshua: Pats

Sunny: Pats

Jason: Pats

It seems like Joe Flacco and the Ravens always do this. Despite how they play in the regular season, they seem to find another gear in the postseason, particularly on the road. Joe Flacco brings a five-game playoff streak with a passer rating over 100 and his seven road playoff wins is the most all-time. The Ravens pass rush dominated the Steelers last week, so this pick makes me uneasy. But I can’t pick against Brady and Belichick in Foxboro in January. Quick passes to Gronk will negate the Ravens pass rush, as will RBs that can catch the ball out of the backfield. Darelle Revis and Brandon Browner will keep Flacco from feeding the ball to the Smiths. Pats win in a tight one.

Carolina Panthers at Seattle Seahawks

Abby Kate: Seahawks

Jackson: Seahawks

Joshua: Seahawks

Sunny: Seahawks

Jason: Seahawks

My gut says this is the game with the greatest potential for a blowout. I know both teams are hot right now. Carolina scuffled midseason — going 60+ days in between victories — before finding the groove in December. Cam Newton is a dynamic player and one day he’ll get a ring. But not now. Not against this Seattle squad that has given up an average of 66 rush yards per game since Thanksgiving. Expect a raucous environment at CenturyLink with Seattle covering the 11-point spread.

Indianapolis Colts at Denver Broncos

Abby Kate: Broncos

Jackson: Broncos

Joshua: Broncos

Sunny: Broncos

Jason: Broncos

I think this is the possible upset in this week’s matchups. Peyton’s just not right. In the final weeks of the regular season, Denver morphed into a running game. Andrew Luck will not be fazed and I wouldn’t be surprised to see the Colts come away with a victory. But Denver is the more talented squad. And they’re at home. I hate to go chalk on all my picks, but I really don’t want to pick against Peyton. I’m hedging, I know, but I’ll stick with Denver.

Dallas Cowboys at Green Bay Packers

Abby Kate: Packers

Jackson: Packers

Joshua: Packers

Sunny: Packers

Jason: Packers

This game is going to be epic. I just have a feeling. The real X factor here is Aaron Rodgers’ calf. If he’s healthy (and a week of rest should have him ready to go), I see the Pack winning late. If not, the Cowboys are good enough to dominate in their running game. I’m sticking with the Packers to win in a close one, somewhere in the neighborhood of 30-27.

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That Didn’t Take Long

So much for the New Year’s Resolution.

I’m still blogging at a greater pace than at any point last year, so that’s a start.

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2015 Hall of Fame Balloting

Tomorrow the National Baseball Hall of Fame will announce its newest inductees. There are several intriguing first-timers on the ballot, including Pedro Martinez, John Smoltz, and Randy Johnson. Hall voting is always something I follow closely, so I’ll be greatly interested in tomorrow’s announcement.

BBWAA voters are limited to only 10 names per ballot, which complicates voting when you have noteworthy holdover candidates like Craig Biggio and Jeff Bagwell along with deserving first-ballot nominees. Of course, the pall of PEDs continues to hang over this discussion as well, with names like Barry Bonds and Roger Clemens (among others) forcing voters to make moral decisions as they cast their ballots.

For what it’s worth, here are the candidates I would be voting for if I had a vote:

  • Randy Johnson – 5 Cy Young Awards, 303 wins and 4875 strikeouts (2nd all time) arguably make Johnson the most dominant left-handed pitcher of all-time. I think the Big Unit is an absolute lock as a first-ballot inductee.
  • Pedro Martinez – Pedro’s .687 lifetime winning percentage (219-100) and 3 Cy Young Awards are indicative of his precision and dominance in an era marked by inflated offensive statistics.
  • John Smoltz – 213 wins and 154 saves give Smoltz the kind of diverse portfolio Cooperstown hasn’t seen since Dennis Eckersley. While Eck may have had a longer run as a dominant closer, Smoltz seamlessly transitioned to the bullpen mid-career only to move back to the rotation three years later, reasserting himself as one of the premier pitchers in the National League. Throw in a 15-4 record over 200+ postseason innings and Smoltz is a slam dunk. It’s just a shame he couldn’t have been inducted alongside his longtime teammates Maddux and Glavine last summer.
  • Craig Biggio – Biggio should’ve been inducted two years ago if you ask me. But the BBWAA guys have a goofy thing about who gets in on the first ballot, so Biggio is still waiting on the call. Last year, Biggio barely missed the mark, garnering 74.8 % of the votes (75% is necessary for induction). Expect him to get over the hump this year.
  • Jeff Bagwell – Biggio’s teammate deserves to get the call as well. I think PED suspicion has kept Bagwell from serious consideration so far, but he has also garnered a greater percentage of the votes than many of the other sluggers of his era such as Barry Bonds, Mark McGwire, Sammy Sosa, and Rafael Palmeiro (who has already dropped off the ballot). This is one of those conundrums for Hall voters: while the aforementioned sluggers have all been identified with PEDs, other batters from the same era — like Bagwell — unfortunately fall under the same judgment. But without concrete evidence of PED use, I think you’d be hard pressed to keep a player with Bagwell’s numbers from induction.
  • Mike Piazza – Same argument I used for Bagwell holds true for Piazza. The numbers simply point to him as the greatest offensive catcher of all-time. Defensively, he was never great, but an absolutely potent bat.
  • Tim Raines – I think Raines is unfairly remembered for his final years as a platoon player on the Yankees. But Raines was the most dynamic leadoff batter in the National League in the 1980s and for a couple of years there (1983-87) you could argue he was the best player in the league (along with Dale Murphy). Take a look at his numbers from the 80s and you’ll be reminded that Rock Raines was an offensive force.
  • Fred McGriff – I’ve been on the fence about Crime Dog for a while, but I think the same PED suspicion that hurts the chances of some of his contemporaries actually helps McGriff’s case. 493 HRs and not a hint of controversy counts for something in my book.

That’s 8 players, which is an incredibly high number. Realistically, I think Johnson, Martinez, Smoltz, and Biggio will get the call this year; I think some of the others will have to wait. It’ll be interesting to see what happens with Gary Sheffield. I don’t think he’ll get the call, but I wonder what percentage of the vote he’ll have. I wouldn’t vote for him, although I suppose my arguments for Bagwell and Piazza could create some criteria for his inclusion someday. But I need more time to think on that one. Also, watch out for Sammy Sosa’s vote total. Last year he barely held on with 7% of the vote; given that voters can only select 10 players per ballot, this might be the year he finally drops off the ballot with less than 5% support.

Also, I’m reading that more voters are feeling comfortable putting Barry Bonds and Roger Clemens on their ballots this year. I still think we’re a few years away from either of them being elected, but I do think their supreme talents will eventually be enough to ensure their election.

What do you think? Which players will become the newest members of the Hall of Fame tomorrow?

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Wild Card Results

Well, the games are in the books and the final tally looks like this:

Jason: 3-1

Jackson: 3-1

Abby Kate: 3-1

Joshua: 1-3

Sunny: 1-3

I doubt very seriously that I’m going to be able to break the gridlock with Jackson and Abby Kate; they insist on picking the teams that Daddy picks. But I can live with that! Imitation is flattery, right?

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