When it’s a special anniversary, you order dessert.

Today marks 25 years of being married to my beautiful bride. We celebrated early by taking a little trip over her spring break in March — but today is our official anniversary. I can’t even really remember what my life was like before I knew Sunny. We were just kids when we met back in high school. But I am so grateful that she has been my companion through college and ministry and parenthood — through each of life’s overlapping seasons.
One of my favorite authors talks about the faithfulness of “a long walk in the same direction.” And I’m grateful to have been walking in the same direction with her for all of these years. Sunny, your faithfulness to me has been constant. I’m praying for at least 25 more years of walking in this same direction with you.

I came across this yesterday in The Cloud of Unknowing, a 14th century spiritual classic.
Humility is seeing yourself as you really are.
Pride is a facet of the false self. It is to see yourself falsely. In our pride, we set ourselves up as little “gods” and “goddesses” over our lives, calling all the shots, sovereign in our rule. According to the Bible, this is the ancient temptation, going all the way back to Eden. We are always tempted to elevate ourselves to this god-like status.
But humility is seeing through the false self. Here we accept the reality of the true self; we acknowledge who we really are without pretense. We acknowledge our limitations, our faults, our great need. Jesus begins the Sermon on the Mount by saying, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Humility is the first step in receiving the Kingdom. It is seeing ourselves in our sin and seeing Jesus as our Savior.
This kind of humility is transformative. But it begins with seeing yourself as you really are.
I don’t think I will ever forget Pedro’s story:
We had a great time on our Baja mission trip this year. I especially enjoyed the opportunity to preach on the theme of “Returning to Your First Love.” I’m grateful to say that we had several restorations and one baptism. Praise the Lord for His grace in calling us to come home to Him!

