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We have a lot of fun at our office Christmas party! Love serving alongside shepherds who don’t take themselves too seriously!
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Father’s Pure Joy
I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. – Isaiah 61.10
I come from a faith tradition with a high view of baptism. As a child, the richness and beauty of baptism was both explained to me and modeled for me in our church. For that, I am thankful. Now, as a parent myself, whenever I seek to share my faith with my children, baptism is inevitably a part of the discussion.
All of this made today a really special day for our family. This afternoon, with a host of family and friends looking on, Abby Kate was baptized into Christ. I reminded her of her name – Abby Katherine – which means “father’s pure joy.” The name is a fitting one. When I learned that were having a daughter, I literally jumped out of my seat and yelled at the top of my lungs. And being the father to this beautiful young lady has been nothing short of a joyful experience for me.
Prior to each child’s birth, Sunny and I selected a text that best represented our prayers and hopes for that particular child. Abby Kate’s passage was Isaiah 61:10, a text that hangs on the walls of her room so that it might be written in the halls of her heart.
This has long been our prayer for our daughter. Not only does she bring us great joy, but more importantly, we’ve wanted her to delight greatly in her Creator. And today, our prayers came to fruition. Our daughter professed her faith in Jesus by declaring His lordship over her life.
And this father couldn’t be more joyful.
Abby Kate, today you lived into your name. I can’t imagine how your Father in heaven could love you more than I do, but I believe this to be true. On behalf of both of us, you bring us such great joy. Go to peace, my dear. You are loved deeply.
God With Us
Many people know the first verse of the Bible so well that they could recite it from memory: Genesis 1:1, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” This foundational truth grounds all that follows in Scripture.
But do you know the last verse of the Bible? This one might be a bit more difficult. It’s Revelation 22:21 and it says, “The grace of the Lord Jesus be with God’s people. Amen.” The Bible begins with a cosmic backdrop: God speaking the world into existence, creating the sun and moon and the heavens and the earth. But the Bible ends with these simple words of hope and promise: May the grace of Jesus be with God’s people.
There is one small word in that sentence, a powerful word that makes all the difference in our lives. It’s the word “with” — the word that connects the grace of God found in Jesus to our lives. It’s as if God has made us this beautiful promise that He doesn’t want us to forget before we put our Bibles down. And it’s a promise that’s predicated on that one little word: “with.” In Jesus, God has made a promise to be with us.
There is no more comforting thought for us, I believe, than the idea of God being with us. When I was a child, I felt this way about my Dad. He could bring me comfort just from his presence. It seemed like my Dad knew a little bit about everything. Maybe you’ve had someone like that in your life: a parent, a grandparent, your spouse, a good friend. There are certain people who bring us comfort and confidence just by their presence alone.
If you’ve had a relationship like that in your life, I think that gives you a window to look through as we read our text for tonight.
Matthew 1:18-23
This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.
But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.
All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” – which means, “God with us.”
Matthew says the birth of Jesus fulfills a prophecy from Isaiah, specifically Isaiah 7:14. 700 years before the birth of Jesus, Isaiah makes this prophecy: that a virgin will conceive and give birth to a son and he will be Immanuel, God With Us. Just for a point of reference, this would be like Christopher Columbus’ great-grandfather predicting the winner of this year’s Iron Bowl. It is only through the power of God that Isaiah is able to make this prophecy.
These circumstances all come together in the birth of Jesus. As the text says here, He was born of a virgin. And that leads us to the first point we can make from this text tonight: Christ’s unique birth parallels his unique death. It foreshadows His distinct and unique life. Everything about Jesus is different:
- The way He lives is unique and uncommon: He lived a sinless life. Hebrews 4:15 says that Jesus has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet was without sin. The temptations He faced may have been common — He faced every kind of temptation, just like we do — but His response to those temptations was unique. He was without sin.
- The way He teaches is uncommon: He teaches as one with authority. Mark 1:22. His teaching has authority because He is the incarnate Word of God.
- The way He prays is uncommon; the way He views the world is uncommon; His death was uncommon and His resurrection was uncommon.
Everything about Jesus is unique. But most importantly, his death was unique. To this, the Scriptures testify:
- 1 Peter 3:18 (NASB), For Christ died for sins once for all, the just for the unjust, so that He might bring us to God, having been put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit.
- Romans 6:10 (NASB), For the death that He died, He died to sin once for all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God.
In both His unique birth and His unique death, we see Jesus as Immanuel, as God in the flesh, God with us.
So it’s fair to say that the birth of Jesus is a unique event. But for all His uniqueness, the Bible also points to the fact that Jesus can relate to our experience in the flesh. This is our second point for tonight: Jesus can sympathize with our weaknesses.
The Hebrew writer makes this especially clear in Hebrews 4:14-16:
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are – yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.
The Hebrew writer tells us that Jesus knows the human condition well, having been tempted in every way just as we are tempted. Now, His uniqueness is that He remained without sin. But the fact that Jesus faced the same temptations we face makes Him relatable. When we say to Him, “Lord, this is hard,” He replies, “I know. I remember.”
The Hebrew writer says that Jesus can sympathize with out weaknesses. Newer translations use the word “empathize,” which is probably a better fit. Jesus can identify with us. He’s been there. He knows a thing or two about difficult circumstances. He can empathize.
I read an article about an interesting medical school training technique in Germany. In order to help 20-year-old med school students to feel genuine empathy for senior citizens, they make them put on what is known as “The Age Man Suit,” a custom built suit to simulate the physical consequences of old age. The suit, which weighs over 20 pounds, consists of the following:
- Ear-protectors that stifle hearing
- A yellow visor that blurs eyesight and makes it hard to distinguish colors
- Knee and elbow pads which stiffen the joints
- A Kevlar-jacket-style vest which presses uncomfortably against the chest
- And padded gloves to simulate arthritic hands
Dr. Rahel Eckhardt from Berlin, Germany helps strap the suit onto the med students as she tells them, “Welcome to old age.” She says, “My aim is to turn young energetic people into slow, creaking beings, temporarily at least. That way they will develop a feeling for what it’s like to be old.” Eckardt argues that there is a huge disconnect between large sections of the medical profession and their elderly patients, as well as a desperate lack of doctors willing to go into geriatric medicine.
“Rather than a PowerPoint presentation, this is the best way of giving them a real idea of what it’s like to be old,” she says. “Only once we have their empathy can we really begin to win students around to becoming interested in old people as patients.”
This sounds an awful lot like what Jesus went through, putting on flesh so that He could empathize with us. Jesus is Immanuel, God with us, in the sense that He can sympathize / empathize with our weakness. He has compassion on us in our weakness.
And that leads us to a final point: His compassion is the source of our confidence. If Jesus, as our Great High Priest, can sympathize with our weaknesses, then this compassion should infuse us with confidence.
And that’s what the Hebrew writer is saying. The Hebrew writer is ultimately encouraging us to be confident in prayer. When we pray, how often do you hear someone say, “Lord, please be with so and so.” We pray this all the time. And I love it. It’s as if these are the best words we have to express what’s in our hearts. When we care for someone, we simply ask God to present with him/her, assuming that if God is with them, then all will be well.
Biblical confidence comes from a belief in the compassionate presence of God. Look at these examples:
- Moses (Exodus 3), the burning bush. God calls Moses to return to Egypt, the site of his greatest moral failure, in order to free the people from slavery and lead them to the Promised Land. But Moses balks and says, “Who am I? They won’t listen! I’m afraid!” But listen to what God says, “I will be with you.” (Ex. 3:17). God says, If you have me on your side, you don’t need to worry.
- Joshua (Joshua 1), the successor to Moses. He has quite a job ahead of him as he stands on the brink of the promise land, about to launch a military strike to reclaim this land for Israel. Joshua’s knees might’ve buckled a bit. But God comes to Joshua and says the same thing: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Josh. 1:9)
The 23rd Psalm is the most beloved chapter in the Bible, primarily because it confidently asserts: Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me. This word has brought comfort to an untold number of believers over the years, because it speaks to the deepest desires of our hearts — to know that God is with us.
Are you a believer in the compassionate presence of God? Perhaps there are certain fears that you wrestle with periodically. Maybe you’re like Moses and you’re haunted by the ghosts of a past moral failing. Maybe you’re like Joshua and you’re fearful of the task that’s ahead of you. Maybe it’s something else entirely. Whatever it is, God’s response to His people seems to be consistent: I’m with you.
If we are in need of this reminder, we need look no further than Jesus, the child who confirms once and for all that God is with us.
Followers of Jesus carry this promise around with them – that God has come near to us. In Jesus, God is with us, God is for us, God is on our side. And that should give us confidence.
May we look to Immanuel, God With Us.
And may the grace of the Lord Jesus be with God’s people. Amen.
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The Path to Wisdom
We have at our disposal today more knowledge than at any time in history. They say that more information has been produced in the last thirty years than in the previous five thousand. Today information doubles every four years. Since the advent of the Internet we have more knowledge at our fingertips than we can possibly process.
But knowledge and education is different than wisdom. What is the difference? I like this comparison: Knowledge is gathered from learning and education, while wisdom is gathered from day-to-day experiences. That means knowledge is information of which someone is aware, whereas wisdom is the ability to make correct judgments and decisions.
Our world has plenty of knowledge and education, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into wisdom. In fact, wisdom can often be learned from those who are uneducated. Take children for instance. A recent interviewer asked a group of children to give an example of wisdom. Here’s what they said:
- Patrick, age 10, says, “Never trust a dog to watch your food.”
- Michael, age 10, says, “When your dad is mad and asks you, ‘Do I look stupid?’ don’t answer him.”
- Randy, 9 years of age said, “Stay away from prunes.” One has to wonder how poor Randy discovered that bit of wisdom.
- Eileen, age 8 says, “Never try to baptize a cat.”
So, there’s a big difference between knowledge and wisdom. The Bible has much to say about wisdom. More than any other place in the Bible, the book of Proverbs is God’s guidebook to us for how we should go about acquiring wisdom.
Let’s think about three principles, three essential steps on the path to wisdom from the book of Proverbs:
- Step 1: The Fear of the LORD
- 1.7, The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.
- The quest for wisdom begins with fear of the Lord. What does this mean? Here are some of the key elements:
- Reverence – comes from understanding God’s character. Respect for God’s “otherness”. He is holy; I am not. A major point of discussion in our country right now centers around reverence and the singing of the national anthem. But what about reverence for God? The fear of the Lord produces reverence.
- Submission – understanding who I am in light of who God is. Knowing that He is God and I am not.
- Humility – closely related. The reason we don’t like submission is because we don’t like humility. But the fear of the Lord produces a sense of humility – born from knowing who God is.
- Moral training
- In the 1950s, two doctors (one, a psychologist and, the other, a psychiatrist) shared the belief that crime was primarily the product of environment. So, they embarked on a 17-year study involving thousands of hours of clinical testing of 250 inmates in DC. To their astonishment, they discovered that the cause of crime cannot be traced to one’s environment, poverty, or oppression. Instead, they realized that crime is the result of individuals making, as they put it, “wrong moral choices.” In their 1977 book, “The Criminal Personality”, they concluded that the answer to crime is a “conversion of the wrong-doer to a more responsible lifestyle.”
- And the Proverbs echo somewhere in the distance: The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge. Ultimately, the fear of the Lord produces a lifestyle of faithful obedience.
- Importance of training and educating our children at an early age:
- Deut. 6 – Shema Israel – and the practical application is that these commands are to be talked about at all times, all circumstances.
- Prov. 22.6 – Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
- Fear of the Lord manifests itself in a life of obedience. That’s the path to wisdom.
- Step 2: Mentoring
- Remember our definition of wisdom: it is gathered from day-to-day experiences, which leads to the ability to make godly judgments and decisions. That means life is probably the best teacher. There are certain lessons I’ve learned in my 40 years that have been invaluable to me.
- But it also means that the younger we are, the less wisdom we have. It just stands to reason. The fewer experiences we have, the less wisdom we will possess.
- But that means that we need older, wiser voices to mentor and coach and teach us along the way. This morning – looked at Deborah. Much of the book of Proverbs operates in this same way.
- Proverbs 1-9 is written in the voice of a father talking to his son, imparting wisdom to him for godly living. Just listen to some of these verses and the mentoring / coaching / teaching that takes place:
- 1.8 – Hear, my son, your father’s instruction, and forsake not your mother’s teaching…
- 2.1, 5 – My son, if you receive my words and treasure up my commandments with you…then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God.
- 3.1, 2 – My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments, for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to you.
- 4.1 – Hear, O sons, a father’s instruction and be attentive that you may gain insight
- 4.10 – Hear, my son, and accept my words, that the years of your life may be many.
- 4.20-21 – My son, be attentive to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Let them not escape from your sight; keep them within your heart.
- 5.1 – My son, be attentive to my wisdom; incline your ear to my understanding, that you may keep discretion, and yoru lips may guard knowledge.
- 5.20 – Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?
- This is just the tip of the iceberg in Proverbs, coming from the first five chapters. I want to be that Dad that’s writing these Proverbs. Full of wisdom to impart to the young.
- We live in a youth-obsessed culture. Young athletes are given million dollar contracts before they ever touch the court / ball field. From hair dye to Botox to Viagra to wrinkle cream to plastic surgery, the race is on to be, as Rod Stewart sang, “Forever Young.” It’s hard to believe that some of our founding fathers powdered their wigs gray in order to appear older and wiser. Being “old” was “in” back then!
- But the church stands as a place where all people are valued, regardless of age, status, gender, etc.
- Older generation – you have a responsibility to mentor & teach
- Younger generation – you have a responsibility to listen & learn
- But we can’t accomplish these responsibilities without each other.
- Step 3: Discipline
- Nobody likes discipline. But it’s necessary. Whether you’re training dogs or raising children, discipline is necessary.
- We live in undisciplined, unrestrained times. For 40 years, Burger King’s slogan was “Have It Your Way” and that’s a good description of our culture. But this seems to be something that’s always plagued humanity. Throughout the book of Judges, there’s a line that comes up repeatedly: And everyone did what was right in his own eyes. With that phrase, the Bible paints a picture of an undisciplined, reckless people.
- To be a Christian is to live a disciplined life. Disciple is literally one who disciplines himself / herself under the teaching of another. To be a disciple of Jesus is to subject yourself to his instruction, his leadership.
- He who heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray. – Prov. 10.17
- Simon Peter – Seems predisposed to be able to withstand the Lord’s discipline. Matt. 16, Confesses Jesus’ identity as the Son of God. The very next episode, he receives the rebuke, “Get behind me, Satan!” Needed to be disciplined, corrected. That’s not harsh – in fact, Simon Peter would say, “I’m glad the Lord loved me enough to discipline me!”
- Some could be said of Paul – on the road to Damascus, the Lord gets his attention. Disciplines him, but graciously re-directs him to become an evangelist.
- James Packer, “The opposite of wisdom is folly, meaning the short-term self-indulgence which marks out the person who doesn’t think about long-term priorities…but lives on a day-to-day basis asking, ‘What is the most fun thing to do now?’”
- The disciplined life asks a fundamentally different question: “What can I do for the Kingdom of God right now?”
- 3.11, My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves him who he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights.
- 6.22-23, The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him, and he is held fast in the cords of his sin. He dies for lack of discipline, and because of his great folly he is led astray.
The Santa Claus Break-Up
The other day I was at the pool with our youngest, age 10. While Jackson was swimming, a little girl lost a tooth in the pool. For about 10 minutes, every kid in the pool was putting on their goggles and diving down to the pool floor in the hopes of finding the lost tooth. I bet Jackson dove down two dozen times as part of the search party. But in the end, nobody ever found the tooth. For all I know, it’s still on the bottom of the pool.
As Jackson and I were leaving, the girl’s mother had her arms wrapped around the child, trying to console her. “Maybe the Tooth Fairy will still come and see you tonight,” she said desperately. Since I was the only adult within earshot at the time, the Mom looked up as she was talking and gave me one of those knowing raised-eyebrow-head-nods as if to enlist me to the cause as well. Realizing that I suddenly had a part to play, I said, “Yeah, I hear the Tooth Fairy doesn’t even take your tooth anymore; she just leaves money.” Not great, but the best I could do on short notice. The little girl didn’t even look up at me, so I quickly looked to the mother with my own raised-eyebrow expression, silently asking, “Good enough?” She thanked me with a smile and I walked to the truck with the satisfaction that I had played such a key role in helping to maintain the child’s innocence.
When we got in the truck, Jackson casually announced, “Dad, I don’t believe in magic anymore.”
“What are you talking about?”
“You know, magic stuff like the Tooth Fairy.”
“Really?”
“Yeah, that’s just the parents giving money to their kids.”
For years, we’ve encouraged our kids to ask us anything and we promised that our answers would be as honest as possible. Our older children have taken us up on this and we had some version of this conversation with each of them independently. But neither of them ever declared their lack of faith so brazenly. Jackson, being the youngest, wasn’t exactly asking me anything. He was telling me.
I said, “Well, that’s an interesting theory.”
Jackson rolled his eyes. “Dad. It’s not a theory. There’s no such thing as the Tooth Fairy. Right?”
There it is! I thought. There’s still that little bit of doubt. He still has to ask in order to be sure. But we promised honesty. So I gave him an honest answer. “Right,” I said. “There’s no Tooth Fairy.”
“Good,” he replied. “I always thought it was creepy that somebody else was coming into my room at night anyway.”
That’s a really good point, I thought.
But Jackson continued. “I don’t believe in the Easter Bunny either. That’s just parents, too.”
I sat there silently.
“Isn’t that right?”
Again, an honest answer for an honest question. “Yes, son. There’s no such thing as the Easter Bunny either.”
We sat in silence for a long moment. This is the sound of his childhood dying, I thought.
Finally Jackson took a deep breath and said, “I also don’t believe in Ollie.”

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Ollie is the name of our “elf” who visits us every year in the weeks leading up to Christmas. For as far back as I can remember, Ollie comes to our house the first night our Christmas tree is up. By day, he looks like an ordinary doll, one you might find on the shelves of your favorite department store. But at night, Ollie comes to life and magically teleports back to the North Pole to report all your deeds, either good or bad, directly to Santa Claus himself. Or something like that. After giving his naughty-or-nice report, Ollie rides a wave of magical pixie dust to arrive back to our house by sunrise. Our proof of this 10,000 mile roundtrip adventure is that Ollie is in a different location in our home each morning.
I said, “So, how do you think Ollie moves around the house? You don’t think he flies to the North Pole each night?”
Jackson said, “I saw the box that y’all keep him in. Mom keeps it hidden in your closet.”
I sat there silently, thinking to myself, When were you going through my closet?
“Ollie’s not real, is he, Dad?”
“Nope. Not real.”
Another long silence ensued.
“So, that’s it,” I said. “You don’t believe in the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, or Ollie. Is there anything else you want to tell me?”
Jackson paused. “Well…I guess that just leaves Santa.”
“Yep,” I said. “Just Santa.”
We had come right here to the brink and yet Jackson was still a bit hesitant. It’s like he was trying to break up with me about Santa, only he couldn’t find the right words. Finally, he just went for it.
“Dad, Santa isn’t real. Is he?”
“Nope. He’s not.”
That’s when I told Jackson what I told his older brother and sister: Santa Claus is just a game that parents play with their kids. When the kids are really little, it’s a lot of fun because of that sense of “magic.” But as the kids get older, the game gets harder and harder. I told him it always bothered me that “Santa” got credit for all the cool gifts anyway. “Honestly, I’m glad you know now,” I told him. “It’ll make things so much easier on your mother and me this Christmas.”
“What do you mean?”
“Well, now that the cat’s out of the bag, I don’t have to buy you all those Santa presents anymore!”
“Oh,” Jackson said.
Another long pause.
“Dad?”
“Yes, son?”
“We can still play the game, can’t we? Even though I know? I mean, it’s still a fun game.”
And something just felt right about the idea of knowing and yet still playing the game. I wanted to tell my son that I don’t believe in magic anymore either, but I still believe in wonder and I still believe in hope. And that’s what the game has always been about for me anyway.
“Absolutely, son. We can still play the game.”
Jackson smiled.
“Besides,” I told him. “Your older brother and sister still think Santa is real.”
I know, I know. But don’t tell him yet. It makes the game so much more fun.



