Happy Birthday, Tara

Other than the Lord, there has been one constant in my life: my sister. I’ve literally never known a day when she wasn’t a part of my life. And I can’t say that about anybody else.

Tara is conscientious and kind. She shows up for things. She approaches the world with a sense of wonder — it’s one of the reasons she loves to travel. She also loves to laugh — which makes her great company when you’re telling a story. She makes a place for those who don’t have anywhere else to go and nowhere else to turn. She is all of these things and a million more.

Best of all, she’s my sister.

Happy birthday, Tara!

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Lazy Dodger

Our family text thread is filled with pictures like this.

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Happy Birthday, Jackson

A happy 17th birthday to our Jackson Cash! He is a fiercely independent young man with tremendous gifts of creativity and expression. He’s usually the most well-read person in the room and he has a great sense of humor. He’s also always up for an adventure or a deep conversation. And I love that I get to be his Dad. Happy birthday, Jackson! We love you always.

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Father’s Day 2024

I am certainly blessed by these people.

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Camp 2024

I love this picture someone sent me of Joshua teaching Bible class at camp this week. He’s having a great time serving as one of our youth ministry interns this summer.

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SEC Tournament 2024

We decided to run down to Hoover to see some SEC tournament baseball. Go Vols!

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Happy Birthday, Sunny!

Join me in wishing Sunny a happy birthday!

She pursues goodness and exudes quiet strength.

In her love, she hopes all things.

She is unwavering in her commitments and gracious in her ways.

She is joyful and playful; a compassionate teacher and a steadfast encourager; a faithful friend, a tender mother, and a very, very, very patient wife. (She’s still waiting on that new couch! Haha!)

In short, she is the best person I’ve ever known and her loving presence makes me a better man. I am so thankful for her.

These are just a few of the ways that she is “Sunny” to me. Happy birthday, Sunny Anne! Baby, you’re the greatest!

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How We Grow: Time in the Sanctuary

I want to close out this series by looking at a passage of Scripture that has really taken on a lot of meaning for me in the last few weeks.

Psalm 73:1-3

Truly God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart. But as for me, my feet had almost stumbled, my steps had nearly slipped. For I was envious of the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.

This Psalm was written by Asaph, one of the worship leaders at the sanctuary in Jerusalem. It’s not surprising that the worship leader begins by writing about the heart. Soren Kierkegaard famously said that purity of heart is to will one thing. This is worship language. We tend to think that the opposite of a pure heart is a dirty heart, but that’s not the case. The opposite of a pure heart is a divided heart, a heart that holds too many commitments at once. Think of what Jesus says about worshiping God and Mammon; you can’t do it. The heart was designed for singular focus, yet the evil one continually attempts to divide it. Asaph affirms that God is good to the pure in heart.

But Asaph quickly pivots to register a complaint: the wicked are prospering. If Job asked about bad things happening to good people, Asaph inverts the question: “Why do good things happen to bad people?” Asaph confesses that he nearly stumbled when he witnessed this. The unspoken accusation is, “Where are you, Lord? Why are you allowing this to happen?”

Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever seen people get ahead by breaking the rules? They lie or cheat or steal — and it doesn’t seem like they suffer any consequences. They get away with it! Asaph sees this and he acknowledges that he envies their wealth and success.

He goes on to describe a certain arrogance that accompanies these actions:

Psalm 73:11-13

And they say, “How can God know? Is there knowledge in the Most High?” Behold, these are the wicked; always at ease, they increase in riches. All in vain have I kept my heart clean and washed my hands in innocence.

Asaph says that these wicked people mock God by saying, “Is there knowledge in the Most High?” They think God doesn’t really see what they’re doing. And so they increase in their riches. Asaph cries out, “Why am I over here playing by the rules? I have kept my heart clean in vain!” Have you ever felt this way toward God?

Playing off our previous discussion of rest, Asaph is experiencing the restlessness that comes from life in the flesh. He’s experiencing something that is common to every person who has ever tried to live a Kingdom life in a fallen world. When we see the wicked prosper, it creates a restlessness in us. Yet we should remember what God says in Galatians 6:9, Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Asaph confesses that he was beginning to envy the lives the wicked people were living. But something happens to change his perspective.

Psalm 73:16-17

But when I thought of how to understand this, it seemed to me a wearisome task, until I went into the sanctuary of God; then I discerned their end.

Asaph enters into the sanctuary of the Lord — and he sees clearly once more. He comes to his senses as he communes with God in the sanctuary. He sees the wicked for what they are and he doubles down on faithfulness to the Lord. This is the transformative moment for Asaph…and it is the transformative moment for us as well.

It seems there are two aspects to this time in the sanctuary:

  • There is communal time with the saints in the sanctuary as we gather in physical space to worship the Lord together. We commune with one another and we invite the Lord to inhabit the praise of His people. There can be no doubt that this is on Asaph’s mind when he speaks of the sanctuary.
  • But there is also the one-on-one time of entering into the sanctuary to be with God on our own. There is a sanctuary in every human heart — a sacred place where we can take off our masks, a place where I can meet with God any time and for any reason. The enemy will try like crazy to infiltrate that sanctuary of the heart, to profane it by placing other things — even good things — upon the altar of my heart. But this space is intended for God and God alone.

Whenever we practice the spiritual disciplines, we are meeting with God in the sanctuary. We come into His presence as He teaches us to fast, to pray, to study, and to rest. And this time in the sanctuary changes our hearts, just as it changed Asaph’s heart. Time in the sanctuary will transform our desires because time in the sanctuary purifies the heart. Asaph acknowledged that he was weary — restless with all of this worry — until he entered the sanctuary. This is where everything changed for him.

Psalm 73:23-28

Nevertheless, I am continually with you; you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will receive me to glory. Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you …. For behold, those who are far from you shall perish …. But for me it is good to be near God; I have made the Lord God my refuse, that I may tell of all your works.

Look at how Asaph’s desires have changed! Before he entered the sanctuary, he was envious of the wicked and all of their prosperity. He might have even been tempted to follow in their ways. But after he spends time in the sanctuary with the Lord, he is able to say to the Lord, there is nothing on earth I desire besides you.

This is perhaps the most important point to make in our series on the spiritual disciplines:

Time in the sanctuary with the Lord will change your desires.

The more time we spend in communion with God, the more He changes our desires. We begin to want the things God wants. We pursue His purposes. We begin to take on the mind of Christ. Christlikeness occurs in the sanctuary. This is the Spirit’s work of sanctification, which leads Asaph to say, It is good for me to be near God. The closer we are to God, the more He can grow our souls.

And this is the point of the spiritual disciplines. It is to grow me to the point that I can join with Asaph in saying there is nothing on earth I desire besides you, O Lord.

Hear, o pilgrim, the gentle invitation to enter into the sanctuary of the heart.

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How We Grow: Rest

I was talking with someone last week and I was saying to her that our final spiritual discipline in this series was rest. And she said, “OK, rest is right in my wheelhouse! I know how to do that one!”

We laughed about that but her comment made me wonder: Do we really know how to rest?

According to a recent study, the average American wakes up feeling well-rested less than 50% of the time. This survey of 2,000 adults indicated that the average person gets less than six hours of sleep each night. Obviously there are some life circumstances that impact these numbers. If you have an infant or if you’re going through a particularly stressful time at work, you’re more likely to lose sleep. But even if you account for those situations, it’s clear that rest is something that eludes many of us. Another study indicates that it takes the average American approximately two hours to fall asleep at night. It seems that we are a fairly restless people.

And that’s unfortunate, because the Bible makes it clear that God intends for us to have times of rest.

The Old Testament idea of Sabbath was designed to be a time of rest from manual labor. This was God’s gift to the Israelites as they came out of slavery in Egypt. One of the egregious things about slavery is that it reduces a human being down to the level of production. No doubt the Egyptians held this utilitarian view of their Israelite captives. But God redeems Israel out of slavery and gives them a new identity. He gives them the Sabbath command to rest because God Himself rested at the end of His work in creation. And since we are made in His image, it is important for us to have times of rest as well.

And this isn’t just an OT concept. Jesus says in Matthew 11:28, Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Jesus invites us to find our rest in Him. This similar idea is expressed by the writer of Hebrews 4:9-10, There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from His. From the Old Testament to the New, God consistently calls His people to come and enter into His rest.

But what does it mean to rest in the Lord?

To answer that, I’d like to look at Psalm 46.

Psalm 46:10, Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!

For those who know this verse well, it conjures up images of drinking coffee on the back deck of a chalet somewhere in the mountains. There’s a soothing, serene tone to this line, at least that’s how I think most of us hear it in our minds.

But if you read the rest of the Psalm, you realize something startling: the immediate context of this passage is warfare! Just look at the preceding verse: He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth; he breaks the bow and shatters the spear; he burns the chariots with fire. How we went from burning chariots to peaceful sips of coffee, I’ll never know.

The idea here is that we are to stop all of our restless striving as if the outcome depends upon us. We are to trust in the picture of God as our refuge and our strength, for He is the one who fights our battles for us. When we trust in this, we can truly be still. We release all of this in the knowledge that He is Sovereign. As the line says, He will be exalted in the earth.

I think THAT is what it means to be still and know that He is God.

Rest is the antidote to our restlessness.

Rest is the only way to curb our addiction to busyness. It is a way of honoring our human limitations. This is what made the Sabbath so important. Sabbath was a way of learning to live on God’s time. It was patterned after God’s rest at the conclusion of creation. We’re not made to work without end, 24/7. You have a finite amount of energy and time. We are made with limitations — because we are not God.

I think one of the reasons we feel so restless is because we assume too much responsibility. If you live as if the outcome completely depends on you and your effort and your will, the word for that is idolatry. You’re taking on too much.

Maybe the reason it takes people two hours to fall asleep at night is because we’re too busy playing God.

Restlessness is at work in the unsustainable pace at which many of us live.

Restlessness is behind the way we drive.

It’s at work in our deep fear of missing out. We like to assume that we can be like God — that we can be everywhere, all the time. And Satan uses this to diminish us to the degree that we’re never really present anywhere because we’re always worried that we might be missing out on something else.

These are just a few of the hallmarks of our restlessness.

That is why it is so important for us to live in obedience to this command: to be still and know that the Lord is indeed God. When you do that, you’ll find the cure for your restlessness. As Augustine said, our hearts are restless until they find rest in God.

When do you rest?

And how do you rest?

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Mother’s Day 2024: In Pursuit of Goodness

Here’s a picture of our crew as we celebrate Sunny today. From my observation, Mother’s Day seems to be a bit sweeter for her than usual this year. Maybe that’s because Joshua and Abby Kate came home this week after finishing up their freshman year of college. Either way, I love the smile on her face as she is surrounded by all of her babies (and puppies).

Sunny and I met when we were teenagers. It was nearly 30 years ago that we started dating. I’ve had a front row seat as that young teenager became a college student, a young wife, a compassionate educator, and then a mother to our three children. Through every transition and every season, Sunny has been steadfast in her character. When I first met Sunny, what stood out to me most was her goodness. And this has been her constant disposition throughout the decades of our life together. I have never met anyone who wants to do the right thing more than Sunny. And this pursuit of goodness is her most quintessential characteristic. (For more on this, here’s a post I wrote about Sunny’s pursuit of goodness a few years ago. I still think it’s one of the best things I’ve ever written.)

Naturally, her pursuit of goodness overflows into our lives. When someone wants to do the right thing so much, she develops high standards. Expectations are inevitably raised. Such a person expects more out of you and teaches you to expect more from yourself. And that’s a good thing. I know that my life has been transformed by Sunny’s pursuit of goodness — and I think our children would say the same thing.

Jesus says that you’ll know a tree by the fruit it bears. Sunny, the Holy Spirit has borne plenty of fruit in your life, but today we are thanking God for the goodness He produces in and through you. Your goodness prompts us toward an even deeper pursuit of goodness in our own lives. We love you and appreciate you so much.

Mother’s Day 2024

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