Yikes. Looks like I need to come up with a new sermon illustration for Sunday. And I soooooo wanted to tell everybody about Sunny’s latest run-in with the law. There goes that one.
And for the record, she doesn’t snore.
Yikes. Looks like I need to come up with a new sermon illustration for Sunday. And I soooooo wanted to tell everybody about Sunny’s latest run-in with the law. There goes that one.
And for the record, she doesn’t snore.
As if the Cardinals’ October no-show wasn’t bad enough, the title of this article at NESN is enough to stop me in my tracks.

The best hitter of his generation
Please, Albert. Don’t do this to me. Cards ownership over the years has been notorious loathe to “show the money” to even their most stalwart players.
At least he says money isn’t the only factor he’ll consider when his contract is up. He says it’s also about being a part of a team with a commitment to winning. Is this a subtle hint that he wants ownership to open the purse strings for fellow slugger (and current free agent) Matt Holliday?
And, did you catch it? He also says his future is in “God’s hands”.
Cards fans, that gives us approximately 24 months to pray for the hand of God to keep the best hitter of his generation in a Redbird jersey.
I am constantly touting the merits of subscription music site eMusic. Looks like I’m not the only one.
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Today is the 22nd anniversary of my father’s death. I’ve written several tributes to him at my former blog and, honestly, I am finding it difficult to summon up the energy and inclination to write another one. But last night I went back through and read them all and I think this one from 2007 is my favorite. I’m posting it here today in memory of Al Bybee, my father.
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Tomorrow will be the 20th anniversary of my father’s death. In many ways it seems much longer, like he died a lifetime ago. He passed away when I was 10 years old and now, 20 years later, I’m still a little surprised at how much I miss him sometimes. With time, you learn to cope with certain losses. The pain isn’t always unbearable. Most of the time it’s dull and distant. I guess you just learn to keep yourself busy with other things so you don’t have to really dwell on the parts of your life that are painful. At least that’s what I tend to do.
But 20 years later, I miss my father so much more now. I guess this is largely due to the fact that I’m a husband and father now myself. It really pains me that I don’t get to share my life with him– my wife, my kids, my ministry, etc. The pain has always been especially palpable at the “special” times: like when I graduated from high school or when I graduated from college or when I got married or when the kids were born. But lately I’ve been more aware of the little things I miss out on like phone calls to talk about the ball game or fishing trips with my kids…the ordinary kinds of things that fathers and sons and grandchildren do together. I’ve even started showing Joshua and Abby Kate some of my old pictures of my Dad. I guess I want them to recognize him when they meet him someday.
I often daydream about what it would be like if he were still here, what it would be like for him to be in my home, to be in my world. In my daydream, he tells me that he’s really proud of how good Joshua is at baseball. They go to the backyard and play catch and Joshua keeps throwing the ball over his head and Dad just laughs and laughs. He’s blown away by Abby Kate’s uncanny memory when it comes to her Bible stories and he takes her and puts her on his knee and reads to her. And of course, he’s crazy about Jackson and he scoops him up and cradles him in his arms as if he is my father’s most treasured possession. In my dream, he’s finding something to tease Sunny about, like her neatly organized pantry or her absolute refusal to eat fish of any kind. She rolls her eyes at him and he laughs as he hugs her. We sit around and he tells the funny stories that make everybody laugh and then he gets out his guitar and he and I sing Johnny Cash and “You Are My Sunshine” to our wives. And we eat Stickies and watch old episodes of Andy Griffith and The Honeymooners. And in my dream, we never say goodbye.
These are the dreams that take me captive on days like today. They sustain me in those times when the pain is no longer dull and distant, but immediate and sharp. And I relish these dreams, for I believe these are the dreams of eternity; dreams of reconciliation and restoration and peace. I relish these dreams because they’re all I have. Dreams. And hope. And a promise of someday…
Until this valley becomes a mountain,
Until this sword in my heart becomes a plowshare,
Until these dreams come true,
I’ll be missing you, Dad.
Jason
Tonight I took Joshua to Wal-Mart to pick out a toy. He’s been working really hard on his manners, his “sir” and “ma’am”, his behavior at school…several things. Since he’s been doing such a good job with everything, we decided to let him pick out something special from the toy aisle at Wal-Mart. When I got home from work, I let him hop in the truck with me and off we went.
As we were pulling out of the driveway, he said, “Dad, this is awesome. We never get to do anything like this, just me and you.” Of course, this isn’t true; we do stuff all the time. But obviously, he was pretty excited.
Then we pulled out onto the highway and Joshua says, “Dad, you know who my best buddy in the whole world is? It’s YOU!”
You’re my best buddy, too, son.
As many of you know, I’m a big LOST fan. On another blog, I posted all of my thoughts re: each episode of the last few seasons of LOST. As soon as last season ended, I started slowly going back and watching all of the previous episodes from seasons 1-5. I’m at the final episode of Season 3 right now (trying to finish up Season 5 by January just in time for the final season). Here’s something that’s struck me.
Throughout Season 3, Desmond has these “flashes” of Charlie’s impending death. Desmond constantly tries to keep Charlie from dying (he saves Claire from drowning, keeps lightning from striking Charlie’s tent, keeps an arrow from piercing him in the throat, etc.). By the finale, Desmond realizes that Charlie’s death is inevitable, a necessary “course correction” in the cosmic drama of fate or “The Island” or whatever. But he has this final flash of Charlie swimming down to The Looking Glass station, flipping a switch, seeing the yellow light turn off and then Charlie drowns. This flash comes to pass in the Season 3 finale when Charlie cryptically tells Desmond that the rig offshore is “Not Penny’s Boat”.
But one thing has always bothered me. Desmond’s flash has a conditional element to it. IF Charlie does all of this, then he sees Claire and Aaron climbing aboard a helicopter and leaving The Island. Of course, this doesn’t happen. Or at least, it hasn’t happened yet.
Which gets me to thinking: what happened that prevented that portion of Desmond’s flash from occurring?
Elsewhere in the episode, Ben meets Jack and the castaways as they are trekking across The Island to the radio tower. Of course, this is where Jack will make the phone call that ultimately leads to he and the rest of the Oceanic Six leaving the Island. Just before he makes the call, Locke shows up (after receiving a vision of Walt) and tells Jack this is not what he is “supposed” to do. Prior to this, in Ben’s conversation with Jack, Ben tells the good doctor that he once made a decision that caused 40 of his people to lose their lives in a single day. Of course, Ben is talking about the Purge. But Ben is also trying to keep Jack from making that call. He says to Jack, “If you make this call, every single living person on this Island will die.” He warns Jack that history is about to repeat itself if Jack makes this phone call.
Is this true? In a way, yes. By making this call, Jack essentially forfeited the lives of “his people”, the 40 or so “redshirts” that we see in the background. So here’s my thought: what if Season 6 somehow leads us up to that moment of decision again for Jack? What if it’s true that Jack was never “supposed” to make that phone call? What if his fate is truly tied to The Island? What if Desmond’s flash of Claire and Aaron getting aboard the helicopter didn’t happen because of Jack’s decision to go “outside the box” by doing something he wasn’t “supposed” to do? Season 5’s trippy timeline-shifting story seems to be leading us to some sort of revision of the history we’ve been acquainted with thus far? Now that Jack has lived with the despair of that decision, perhaps we’ll see him being led to this moment of decision again, only this time he chooses not to make the call and thus fulfill his ultimate destiny on the Island. In this way, he and Locke are finally aligned as the rightful leaders of the Island in a way that “pleases” Jacob (who I think was communicating to Locke via Walt, encouraging Locke to implore Jack not to make the impending phone call).
Does this make sense? I know the mythology of this show can get sort of dense at times, but I’m thinking that everything may hinge on this decision Jack made. Ultimately, I think we’re going to see Jack and Locke emerging as the new leaders of The Island, replacing the current regime of Ben and Richard.
Your thoughts? I’m probably way off here, but it’s something to ponder.
Only a few more months until Season 6!
In the right hand sidebar, you’ll notice a column entitled “Mission”. These are some of the causes / organizations that I support because I believe they seek to advance the ongoing mission of God in the world. I’ll continue adding to the list as time passes, but I encourage you to check ’em out. (If you’d like more information about one of them, let me know.)
One of the most recent additions is an effort that really excites me. Shanon’s House of Compassion is an effort of the Mayfair church to demonstrate compassion and hospitality to families as they deal with the extended hospitalization of a loved one here in the Huntsville area. And this effort will move forward in memory of a very special young man.
Shanon Dickerson was a young man of uncommon compassion. A missionary, a counselor, a difference-maker, a disciple…in short, Shanon loved Jesus and that love reoriented his life. (For Shanon’s complete story, click here.) Though cancer claimed his life much too soon, Shanon’s influence continues today through Shanon’s House of Compassion. The house serves as a “hospitality house” for families with loved ones hospitalized here in Huntsville, a tangible expression of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the one who said, “I was a stranger and you invited me in,” (Matthew 25:35).
A fitting way to honor the life of a young man whose life was also tangible expression of the Gospel.
If you’d like more information about Shanon’s House, let me know and I’ll be happy to fill you in.
The fantasy football gods hate me.
In both of my fantasy football leagues, my opponents picked up Ahmad Bradshaw off the waiver wire to fill in for a bye-week running back.
Of course, the week they do this, Bradshaw explodes for 100+ yards and 2 touchdowns.
If this is payback for my ridiculously lucky fantasy baseball season (where everything I touched turned to gold), then so be it. I’ll take a fantasy baseball win any year.
But still…Ahmad Bradshaw? Nice pick up, Lane.
This may be some of the best news I’ve heard all week. Well, other than the news that our little hospital scare with Sunny was nothing major. But this news is right up there!
Hat tip to Scot McKnight’s Jesus Creed blog for this little “food for thought” nugget.
“Love your neighbor as yourself.” This injunction is mentioned once in the Old Testament (Lev. 19:18) and seven times in the New Testament (Matt. 19:19, 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27; Rom. 13:9; Gal. 5:14; James 2:8) It is the core Christian ethic for relating to others.
The thing about these New Testament references is that love for others is intrinsically related to love for God. In fact, Jesus can’t seem to separate the two, at least not in the way we sometimes would like. It seems there is no place in the Gospel of Jesus for a love for God that does not manifest itself in love for neighbor.
I read a Dorothy Day quote in Philip Yancey’s What’s So Amazing About Grace? that has always stuck with me. She said, “You really only love God as much as you love the person you love the least.” I hope that isn’t true.
But I think it might be.
Love your neighbor.